The Relationship Thread
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pump the brakes! garry too fast buddy tooooooooo fast!
Exactly what I was thinking. Too fast on EVERYTHING. Reminds me of a high school BF and GF.
I'm happy for Gary, but me and my girl of five years now even waited for six months before saying "I love you". In high school. :O
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I remember that feeling man. Take it slow, as hard as it is! It will be worth it in the long run. Communicate, and you'll be just fine!
I had commitment issues, and didn't tell my ex I loved her for like a year and a half. Even then, it was really.. weird. I absolutely loved her, without a doubt, but it was hard to say it. Ex fiance really did a number on my trust/commitment...
Trust me this is the only place I talk like this. Lol I feel like a b***h, no offense.Awwwww you guys are so cute when you talk all mushy.
I'm not mocking btw
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We waited only a month, BUT....we have known each other for 8 years. Our case is a little different. moved in at 6 months and even then it was a bit too soon.
As far as I'm concerned, it's all circumstantial. What works for some people, may not work for others and vice versa. Everyone is different. Some people work best rushing into things.
That's not bad. My old roomie waited 6 months, and never heard it back until 1 month prior their 2 year anniversary. 1 week before the anniversary she dumped him.My boy and I waited four months
Ouch. I'd be furious.
While I didn't agree about the time frame, she was valid in her reason.
He wouldn't stop doing drugs, and she's never done them and didn't want them in her life. His dream was to move to CO, and have his own pot farm and make his own beer, yet he works for Wells Fargo. Not exactly great goals when in a serious relationship.
Yeah.. they sounded incompatible right off the bat.
I can't stand drugs. I can't date someone who smokes even recreationally. My biological father was a huge junkie and alcoholic.. just can't deal with it.
Yea I never understood them. She's very artistic, somewhat whimsacle. Very independent, yet jealous, and a bit naive too, but wants a family and no one in her family does drugs.
He's from a hypocritical religious (har har) family, both parents are ministers. He did very well in school, yet does drugs and works in Accounting for Wells Fargo. Plus they looked horrible together! lol Think of Robert Pattinson(twilight vampire). I s**t you not he looked like him. barrrf!
I too was around drugs growing up, and no thanks. Not for me. Even smoking cigs is a deal breaker for me. yuck.
I made mine quit before we dated
I won't change someone; they need to change to better themselves, and make sure it's for themselves. Exception: when a couple is making changes together to better things.I made mine quit before we dated
I'm seriously so repulsed by people who smoke. A guy could be hot as hell, and we click in every way. As soon as I find out, or see him light up, done. No saving himself. I walk away with no regrets.
It's gross. I mean, I do have cigars with him on occasion. But I'm phasing out of that slowly.. it's gross.
I didn't make him quit, before we even went out or anything I just told him "by the way, I don't date smokers." So that was up to him.
Ew haha. Sounds like a douche to me! I'm the same, I won't date a smoker either. I hate the smell of cigarettes with a passion. I do, on occasion, smoke hookah, though.
Nothing wrong with a cigar rarely, or hookah occasionally. It's when it's an unbreakable habit, or when it affects daily life (such as smelling like a box of smashed assholes and cigarettes, yellowed teeth, smoker's cough etc.) that I have to draw the line. Cigarettes in general are a no-go, though.