the dimmer switch should be down to your left below your left air vent... mines always plop right above my left knee...
in terms of wiring, there are a lotta threads on this already but basically find the tach check in the upper corner of the engine bay, near the windshield, on the driver's side of a USDM civic its there... the tach check and the coil wires are both blue, sometimes blue with a white or black stripe i believe but your GREEN tach signal wire goes there, i would crimp the two together with a butt connector and not just electrical tape the s**t outta it b/c i did that and it caused my stock tach to operate spuratically... turned out it was a short somewhere? the RED wire for 12V power can be wired to your fuse box *underneath the dash on a USDM, im not familiar with cars from the UK, but it can be wired for 12V ignition there... I just wired mine to my ignition source where my head unit is wired to (a red wire as well), illumination WHITE wire to dimmer switch, and ground to a reliable chassis ground source. Shouldnt be that hard man, just find where all these things would be on your car thats on ours but it shouldnt be that diferent.
I just removed my 5" tach because it was extremely pointless with a stock engine and like 100 horsepower
...... i would just go for a lil tach without a shift light if i had to do it again.. GL on the install