There is no nice way to say this..
Do what is right for you - not everyone else.. If you liked the kit, I would highly reccomend putting it back on. You could find half a dozen cars that look exactly likes yours in any local highschool parking lot..
Yea, it may have been a big heavy body kit.. but you did it right. The CF hood looked clean w/ the grills, and the headlights are sexy as hell.. I would never go back to the OEM's after copping a set of heads like that.
Now, without the kit, your car lacks depth.. it's a very noticable difference.
But then again, I'm just another person with another opinion. As long as it makes YOU happy, right?