well, just build it how you would any other car. i mean, you say you're good with cars and a civic is just another car. and if you're not going to touch the engine till it blows, just do what you think looks right on the outside, like rims, body kit/ lip kit, suspension, brakes, whatever. if you listen to everyone about what to get for your car but tell them you're not going to touch the engine, you're gonna end up with coilover sleeves and random shocks with the car slammed to the floor, gsr blades (or other Stock Honda Rims), and a bike rack or some other type of roof rack (everyone knows it's a trend and we're all too lazy and fat to ride a bike... or go snowboarding/skiing).
either way, whatever you do, do not half ass the suspension. go for controllability, not looks when you lower the car and get a good set of FULL COILOVERS, not sleeves with mix and match shocks, cuz suspension isn't just for looks and performance, it's also a safety issue. so yeah, just build it how you want to build it, and be safe.