For one I love my eBay turbo kit so far, nothing has failed on it. And im sorry, but if someone thinks that B will blow up before a D just because of the extra camshaft, theyre a n00b. Having a generic kit has nothing to do with ones knowledge. There are plenty of people out there doing some crazy ass set ups with high numbers on a ching chong turbo.An LS longblock costs about $700-800 at hmotorsonline.com you'll need a tranny, axles and ecu for it though. But in the long run it will make more power than a b16. Go-autoworks.com kits start at around $2,000 and that's without any sort of fuel management. The one you're looking at for $1200 is probably a knock-off. You can also try to piece together your own kit and save some money but you'll have quality parts. The only thing you can get from ebay is probably an intercooler and piping, everything else you want to be reliable.
I don't think you should be calling anybody a noob, you have an eBay turbo kit...
I wouldnt get a Go-autoworks kit, dont get me wrong they have some quality parts but I think they are way too expensive for what they come with. Some of them still come with a horrible designed log manifold with the WG on runner one which is what my generic kit came with, but at almost half the price.
If youre on a budget I would just turbo the D. F/I is really the only way to get *real* numbers out of it, unless you do a worthless high compression build which will yield decent hp numbers but no torque whatsoever. Whoever told you the B will blow up faster is a dumbass, it lies all in the tune but you can get much higher numbers with a stock B. 175whp is about the limit for most stock d series although some have hit more (willybignut *drool*). 230ish for LS motors. Yes there have been people with higher numbers but im talking about safe tunes. Also, doing a Vitara+Eagle Rod set up on the D is pretty cool but that will be kinda pricey if you have a shop do the work.
You can just swap over an LS, get the extra torque and boost more while keeping the motor stock. Weigh out the options and see which comes out the cheapest or fits your budget needs.