man ive done this several times........dont stress just get u a small left hand drill bit and it will come out with no problems. As for the bolt you can use just a regular style bolt but besure to man wrestle that washer off the old one or it will leak. Now as far as someone having the same style bolt as what comes on the VC forget it. I have been in the fastener business for 12 years now and i promise you its not available anywhere besides honda. You gotta PAY to Play my friend. Good luck!