i cant say that iv never drove drunk, cause i have, but that was before i had a family and realized how stupid i was. People make mistakes, and she made a bad one. but i def stay at home and drink now, or have someone thats sober drive me. you live and learn.
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I'd never be able to live with myself knowing the fact I took someone's life. Especially my best friends. It's hard to even think about it. Like as much as I don't feel sympathy (not worded properly) for what she did I still feel really bad. I can't even imagine what she feels right now. Just turned 21 and already ruined her life. 
1 of my roomates, a female, is driving me nuts. shes a f**king slob and then whenever i ask her to do something she gets all mad at me and thinks im being a d**k. me and my buddy signed a year lease on the house, and we're just letting her live there for a few months. AND we cut her a solid break on rent and utilities. shes an ungrateful b***h
Plug her mouth with ur ding dong and she will be nice
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kick her the f**k out man... f*ck being mr nice guy.
I can tolerate a slob, as long as you either keep the mess in your room only and not in the shared space, or clean up after yourself. When I used to live with my friend, he was messy as hell and hardly helped around the house. He wasn't around much but honestly to me, that's no excuse at all. We're both paying the same amount to live there. No one should have to do more work than the other. I always did the dishes, I always cleaned up HIS beer cans and bottles, I always vacuumed. Maybe a couple times a month he'd throw in a helping hand.
The worst one that bothered me the most was the garbage. My friend and I had the upstairs apartment and his sister and her boyfriend had the downstairs apartment. We're all friends. But I always took the garbage out. Maybe a couple times a month if that, they'd help. We'd have like 3-4 recycle bins and 2-4 garbage cans full of stuff. They'd always hear me rolling everything out and shout out the window, "Thanks John!!!" and would always say, "We feel like douches for not helping" but would rarely help. I never understood that.
Yeah it sucked, but it's much better than living at home
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idk shes one of my good friends from school and shes only living here until march. i want to kick her out but i don't think she has anywhere else to go until then...
its annoying because this past weekend she went to home and she left a couple dishes in the sink. so last night i asked her politely to try and put her stuff in the dishwasher before she leaves for awhile. she denied it of course. i just don't understand why some people can't admit they're wrong. i kind of got upset that she tried to deny it and i know for a fact that they were hers, becuase i saw her put them in there. so we started fighting about it. she tried to pull some BS and say shes only used 3 plates since shes been living there. and shes been living there since Jan 3rd. lol
also when i got home from work i saw she had taken the trash out of the bathroom garbage can. but she didnt put a new bag in. so later in the night i asked her politely to put a new bag in and i explained that i don't like doing things that I shouldn't be doing. i had to ask her to do it because a few hours had gone by and she didnt do it. i knew that eventually i would be in the bathroom and i would have to throw something away, and then i would have to put a new bag in.
sorry for the rant guys but its frustrating. whenever i ask her to do something it usually ends up being multiple things because theres alot of things that she doesn't do. and because im asking her to do multiple things she takes it the wrong way and thinks im being a d**k. so then she starts getting mad at me and then when i try to explain myself like i am now, she either walks away or starts going LALALALA I CANT HEAR YOU!
shes a f***ing c***
its annoying because this past weekend she went to home and she left a couple dishes in the sink. so last night i asked her politely to try and put her stuff in the dishwasher before she leaves for awhile. she denied it of course. i just don't understand why some people can't admit they're wrong. i kind of got upset that she tried to deny it and i know for a fact that they were hers, becuase i saw her put them in there. so we started fighting about it. she tried to pull some BS and say shes only used 3 plates since shes been living there. and shes been living there since Jan 3rd. lol
also when i got home from work i saw she had taken the trash out of the bathroom garbage can. but she didnt put a new bag in. so later in the night i asked her politely to put a new bag in and i explained that i don't like doing things that I shouldn't be doing. i had to ask her to do it because a few hours had gone by and she didnt do it. i knew that eventually i would be in the bathroom and i would have to throw something away, and then i would have to put a new bag in.
sorry for the rant guys but its frustrating. whenever i ask her to do something it usually ends up being multiple things because theres alot of things that she doesn't do. and because im asking her to do multiple things she takes it the wrong way and thinks im being a d**k. so then she starts getting mad at me and then when i try to explain myself like i am now, she either walks away or starts going LALALALA I CANT HEAR YOU!
shes a f***ing c***
Well if she takes out the full trash bag, why can't you put a clean one in? That would kind of even out the work.
As far as the dishes go? While she's gone, get another set of dishes that look completely different. Tell her she's only allowed to use "these" dishes, and you're going to use "these" dishes. You only wash yours, she only washes hers.
As far as the dishes go? While she's gone, get another set of dishes that look completely different. Tell her she's only allowed to use "these" dishes, and you're going to use "these" dishes. You only wash yours, she only washes hers.
the bag was a small trash can, it holds a plastic bag from the super market. she took it out when i was at work and then she left the house. and she didn't "take it outside" she just put it in the big trash can in the kitchen. plus, like john was saying i take out the trash every week so the least she could do is put a new bag in. and everytime i take out the trash i put a new bag in - why can't she? she normally doesn't touch the bathroom trash the only reason she did is because i saw a damn tampon applicator in the trash yesterday morning... lol. so she probably took it out cause she didnt want me to see it.
if i get her her own set of dishes this probably wouldn't work because the dishes would just pile up in the sink and get in the way if i need to wash pots/pans or refill the brita pitcher. plus im not buying dishes for her. and shes probably not buying dishes either because she keeps complaing about how broke she is.
its funny how shes broke but then she went out and bought a cat last weekend, without permission from me or my roommate - and we're both allergic to cats...
if i get her her own set of dishes this probably wouldn't work because the dishes would just pile up in the sink and get in the way if i need to wash pots/pans or refill the brita pitcher. plus im not buying dishes for her. and shes probably not buying dishes either because she keeps complaing about how broke she is.
its funny how shes broke but then she went out and bought a cat last weekend, without permission from me or my roommate - and we're both allergic to cats...
damn dude, you got yourself into some serious s**t, specially dealing a person like her. I understand why you can not just kick her out, since she's your friend and all, but as soon as her portion of l ease is over with, get her the f**k out of there. She needs mad discipline, she needs to mature, and she needs to screw her head back on. Live and learn my friend.
haha well im glad you see my situatuon lol. she went to the same school as me, shes a bit younger so she hasn't graduated yet. the school has a co-op program where you switch between work and school every 3months. the school term just ended right before christmas so now shes on work term from january through march so thats why shes only living here for a short period. she goes back to school april-june and she keeps talking about "if i come back in july" and all this crap. I'm about to be like f*** NO! sucks for her though because we literally live about 2 blocks away from her job lol
Man, i don't like to be mean to people, but sometimes people let the situation get far enough for me to be mean, and i do not like that. Even tho can be slob, im pretty sure she likes living with you guys, specially if she already thinking about how things would be if she came back. But if you don't mind her living there with you, you first need to talk to her so that you're both on the same page.
Certainly sounds like one. It blows that she completely denies doing s*** she obviously did.
To me, if you take the trash out, put a new bag in. Honestly....it takes what....another 20 seconds? If that? Stop being lazy and just do it. If you put dishes in the sink, take the 5 minutes and wash them. I would rather see clean dishes sit on the dish rack and have to put those away than see dirty dishes in the sink and have to deal with the smell and do double the work. If you drink a beer, take the extra 10 seconds to put it in the recycling bin. People are so lazy...... They amount of time it takes to do something saves you so much in the long run when s**t piles up.
I hated pulling other peoples weight when I lived with my friends. At least you've got the balls to politely ask her to do things. I never asked, said anything, or complained. I'm WAYYY too nice. Even to people that treat me like badly. I stayed quiet and kept doing everything which is stupid too.
some of the times i don't mind living with her and she is a nice girl and all, but when i come home from work the last thing i want to do is fight with her about things she didn't do. i tried talking to her but shes difficult.
i agree with you 100% john.
Yea i have the balls to ask her to do things that SHE should be doing, because I already do all the other stuff that should involve a joint effort from all 3 of us, but i do all on my own anyways. run dishwasher, empty dishwasher, sweep/mop floors, clean bathroom, take out trash weekly, shovel snow (did this twice already, my 2 roommates haven't even picked up a shovel yet this season), etc.
don't get me wrong my other roommate who is one of my good buddies isn't the cleanest kid ever and he might leave his stuff around from time to time but if i ask him to do something he does it. and im not perfect either so when he asks me to do something i do it. its called respect and common courtesy.
Word man, Stress you do not need. Well, .......... ah. Good luck.
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dude, kick that b**** to the curb. i've had to deal with that s*** before, and it only gets worse. irresponsible people like that tend not to change unless it directly affects them. they're just selfish and don't give a s*** about anyone else. why else would she buy a cat to live in a home that isn't even her's to begin with? especially when you guys are allergic. that's f***ing rude and you shouldn't have to live with that. let the b**** go. she's proven just how good a "friend" she is.
our current housemate isn't very good with cleaning either. i guess he grew up never having to pick up after himself and that bad habit has carried over. however, if i ask him to clean up his mess, he will. it's frustrating at times...
our current housemate isn't very good with cleaning either. i guess he grew up never having to pick up after himself and that bad habit has carried over. however, if i ask him to clean up his mess, he will. it's frustrating at times...
Wow man, that's terrible. I'm sorry for your loss and hope your mother gets well.