Lol at your neighbor, but I agree, you have to drive responsibly. I have a neighbor down the street that was threatening everyone to call the police if they drove fast on my street, but the thing is that I live across the street from a high school. So I'd like to see her call the police on the people that drive by my house every day, especially the high school kids with lifted trucks.
I would change the blue pieces in your interior and get your headlight fixed. A little stove top cleaner can do wonders on an engine bay, it's what I used on my car to clean it up. Just make sure to cover your air filter (if necessary), distributor wires and cap, and any other bunches of electrical connectors around.