Just putting some suggestions out there. Maybe grill? I like black housing headlights too, but like you I don't like oem headlights for some reason. CTR replicas? I think stock rims with a nice drop (as long as its not cut springs!!) and grill/headlights/red clear tails would look sick. If you aren't going to modify the motor then I'd just work on suspension and maybe some interior. Cat back just for the look? I don't know. It's your car. Good luck and welcome!