My ex was a huge nerd, and he let everyone walk on him. I helped build him up, then he became a huge d**k and started using me and everyone for everything. We split and he's cleaned up a bit...but if I had to choose, I'd rather him be a pushover again even though I didn't do that to him.Atta girl. Love to the nerds!
Except we get walked on for being too nice. I had to learn the hard way. Got used FAR too often, friendzoned way too much etc. I'm kind of cold-hearted now, and it seems to attract women more. Go figure...
My current WAS a bit of a pushover, but he's really stood his ground with people that used him, and he's kind of opened his eyes a bit. It's such a turn on having him confident, but still slightly shy, yet so kind and sincere.
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