What are you doing / did you do today / CHAT THREAD
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x3 on this one! Lemme see dem titties.
They're not that impressive guys. They're just little.
^ What he said.
Well, I need to talk to someone because I have no one to talk to and this is just bothering so much. My girlfriend of a year and four months broke up with me yesterday because of the stress her dad and step mom put on her because they "don't like me" and she told me that she wishes that we could date but not date at the same time, she says she wishes she could be young and dumb but not lose me in the process. She feels like she needs to kiss someone else to satisfy her urges because she doesn't want to feel like she's missing out being with me for so long.
I'm in such a tough spot. I hate being young lol. We're basically taking a break now and I just feel like s**t knowing she's "sorta bored " with me. I don't have anywhere to turn.
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I'm in such a tough spot. I hate being young lol. We're basically taking a break now and I just feel like s**t knowing she's "sorta bored " with me. I don't have anywhere to turn.
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Don't get so down on yourself bud. I see why you feel bad. But how she's feeling is incredibly normal, especially at your age. Especially if your her first "real" long term boyfriend. I was the same way. From what it sounds like, she honestly cares about you. Otherwise she would have just dumped you and gone. It would be way worse if you guys dated for longer, and longer and maybe possibly took the relationship a step further and THEN have her realize this. It would cause way more harm. Her (and you) meeting other people will make you realize if she is for you and vice versa. You grow, you learn what you like and don't like in a person, and you move on. This may either make you guys realize you indeed are really good for eachother or lead you to the person that really is. But that's way far away from now. You'll be fine. Keep your chin up bud! Everything works itself out in it's own way.
Be young and dumb. Being in a relationship when ur young is the worst thing to do. Go meet girls and live luce. Trust me u will regret it if u dont when ur older.
I know. It's just really hard to deal with. She changed me and got me off my feet doing exciting things. We went to the beach and spent a week there, we went to a Penn state game together, did lots of fun things and she makes me happy. I just don't know what happened. Valentines day rolled around, and the things she said and did for me made me feel amazing. I'm not the most attractive guy in the world so it's hard for me to even talk to a girl.
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You can't say things like this and then just tease us. It's not fair!
Ah young girls. Definitely don't miss the horseshit emotional games these girls would pay. As Mmery said, be young. Don't tie yourself down. Learning to play the game along with other young girls right now will be integral in your dealings with girls later in life. I was in a committed relationship from 14-19 that didn't work out, and after that, I just played the field for a few years. I'm really glad I did.. I learned what I do and don't like, and what I will and won't tolerate. I learned to draw boundaries for myself, and most importantly, self confidence. All of these factors lead to a better social life, which introduced me to the woman I would have married. I encourage you to be young, and enjoy being young.
Yep, I know how that is. Before meeting my ex, I was relatively popular, but I'm a geek, and I was terrible with women. She helped me to find myself (got me into better music, which lead me to meet different people from a different social group that I otherwise wouldn't have, encouraged me to do things and try things I didn't have the confidence to do before etc.). She was an enormous part of getting me out of my shell. After her, I learned that I'm capable of a hell of a lot more than I thought, and it's helped me to become who I am today. Believe me, you'll thank her for all of the things she's shown you later (in a different way), whether this works out or not.
Well, I am going off to college in the fall, and she is going away for a job in the summer, so i just wanted it to at least last till then cause it would've been easier to deal with being away. There's no one around here. All of my friends are gone at college and I don't even know where to start to look to meet people. I went through a rough first serious relationship. I was basically lied to the whole time and I found out she had sent nude pictures to a guy she was talking to before she met me. Then I met my current (guess you could say current ex) and she changed my world around and this is just hard. If things don't get better, then I guess I'll just have to suck it up and focus on myself from now on.
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If it's any consolation, my ex cheated on me with Skrillex's best friend (no lie), and a few of the Hollywood Undead tour crew (not the band themselves, their buddies). She lied about it for a full 9 months, then was banging this zombie looking dude for 6 of those 9 months, and bringing dude around me the entire time. Both of them, just lying to my face. In the end, I socked him out, but that's not the point.
You should be primarily focusing on YOU, and worrying about YOU. Don't worry about finding another girl, or dating someone else. I would suggest hanging out with whatever friends you can (I know you said most are off in college, but you've gotta have SOME people you can hang out with running around) to help keep your mind off of it. Once you get into college, all will be well. Trust me on that haha.
After my s**t ex boyfriend I just put all my focus in my car, job, fitness, family and friends. And I was sooooo much happier. And I grew as a person.
Looks have nothing to do with getting girls...
I think I should take up physical fitness. It'll help me be ,ore confident about my appearance, and make me healthier. I would love to focus on the car, but I really want a five speed and I'm having so much trouble finding a good one for $2500-3000. I'm not even being that picky. Well, sorta. I love having my car hobby to fall back on. It honestly is my drug. I could go for a drive, crank the radio, and relax. I used to do that in my hatch. I just don't get the same feel in my integra. Probably cause the trans is s**t, but I just love to cruise. It's my favorite thing to do. I wish I could afford it lol.
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True, but it plays a huge part in scoring hot girls
Honestly, though, confidence and humor are key (in my opinion. Crash! This is your queue to chime in!).