So it all ended bitterly this morning when I woke up . I had that feeling again that she was still up to something , sure enough she was still texting this guy and not even trying I work on things. I've been trying to be better doin things out of kindness even started reading a book trying to make this work. And she just isn't having it. She would rather waste a marriage cause she felt like I didn't give her enough love . It's still no reason to break a mans heart, not only break but shatter. Anyways I left this morning cause I couldn't take sitting there while she acts like she did nothing wrong. f*** that I deserve better than her anyways even if that mean I live by my self for the rest of my life..
Sorry I'm a little late to the party. But seriously that's a bunch of horseshit. You're being the mature one trying to step back and fix yourself to help the relationship, and she doesn't give a damn. f**k her. You deserve way better than that bubba. And you know that.
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this is going to be your toughest year it seems like, from death of loved ones to death of a relationship, you will come out of this year with a new level of clarity, you now have valuable tools to raise your daughter horrible life experiences to draw upon and reflect on. its time to reflect on this relationship, figure out what you learned, every relationship teaches you something about yourself, use it to grow as a man. you will find happiness again. if you need someone to talk to you got my number on facebook, and in all honesty if you need to get away for awhile you are more than welcome to come out to califonia for however long you need.
Well said, good sir.
Hey I thank you guys most of us have been here a while and we are like a forum family . It really means a lot guys and I appreciate it more than you will ever know. It's been rough for me the past few days. But I will move on . I always do .thanks for the kind words that I've really needed to even carry on. One of these day I'm gonna meet up with some of you motherf***ers and have a beer.
I'm down!
And it is kind of cool how we are kind of a family. Even my boyfriend said so when I talk about our threads. I consider you guys my forum family as well. And I'm glad we can help, we care about you dude!
And since this is the Relationship Thread, my boyfriend, my parents and I went to the bar on Saturday night and got a little silly. And this older gal (about 40) was batshit crazy but cool as hell, came up to me and him and was telling me that she was going through a horrible divorce and that no matter what I need to take care of myself. Then she talked to him for a while and was telling me how great of a guy he probably was. And he is. And my parents were in this convo too. She had a lot of heartfelt things to say, but she was very bitter. And my dad pulls me next to him and starts talking about Matt. He told me, "You seem to love him, too much. But don't worry that's a good thing". I ask what he meant, and he replied with "You absolutely light up whenever he's around. I have to wonder if this is going to be the guy that will be at my funeral". Woah. And he asked me if Matt ever asked me to marry him, what would I say. I said that will be a LONG LONG way down the road, but my first answer wouldn't be no. I've been asked that question by my ex, and I literally told him no. I talked to Matt about it, (and apparently him and my mum talked about it) and he told me years down the road, he doesn't see why not.
Not that you guys care and I'm probably being overly mushy, but that just amazes me. I understand we could last forever, or break up tomorrow, but he's been the greatest thing to me. And it was completely by accident. And is marriage were to ever come up, I wouldn't want it to happen for a LONG time.
/gushing.
Oh, and we had a wonderful date yesterday walking around downtown Seattle ALL DAY. And he loved every minute of it.