I would think she would have to have a job to be able to help pay for rent...
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Yep.
Unfortunately I only make 8.50 an hour. My checks average 450-500. Bi weekly. So after my phone bill, insurance, gas, and essentials, I don't make enough to afford a place on my pay alone. I've looked into it before. Once she gets a job (which she has one lined up and waiting for her in the next town over) even if it's minimum wage we'll have enough to move out. I'm looking forward to that day so much.
The only reason I'm not leaving my current job is because this is really the only place that I can be a manager at. No large scale restaurant that pays well is going to hire me as a manager, being only 19 years old. So I'm here to rack up some management experience until I'm credible and can get on somewhere as a manager rather than entry level.
Lots of things need to fall into place. Lol
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Low income housing. Check into it. I think its either that or break up
I'd honestly prefer to have two incomes if I move out, money's tight enough now as it is. But her best bet at getting a job is convincing her parents to give her a ride. But she won't stand up to them.
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Want in one hand and s**t in the other and see which one fills up faster...
If u wanna be with her then either get two jobs and figure it out or break up and move on...
If u wanna be with her then either get two jobs and figure it out or break up and move on...
real advice. do you want to be with someone who is leeching the system? if yes stay, if no leave. do you want your kids raised in such a dysfunctional environment? these are FUNDAMENTAL relationship questions, that sound like you have not really thought about, thus it makes me question the actual relationship. you have been making something of yourself, bettering yourself and she has made no moves. she is an adult, she can not enable her parents, and she needs to make a big girl choice. love me or hate me, it does not matter.
give her a choice. you and a job...or alone. if the question for you is serious or not, it will tell you a lot about her
also youre a manager and dont even make 9? jesus im part time and not close to a manager and make more in a grocery store
also youre a manager and dont even make 9? jesus im part time and not close to a manager and make more in a grocery store
Since when?
Yeah we've been in this situation sort of before, and it's always with the excuses about her parents. I told her she has to pick between her parents or our future. Hopefully she'll bust ass and we'll get out of this place.
But yeah as far as pay goes it sucks. Not doing it for the cash though, just the experience that will get me the cash in the future
longhorns offered me a position as a line cook and wanted to start me off at 10.50/hour. I'll probably leave where I'm at after my 21st birthday. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Gooogirls are insane, wanna see the chick im dating now? lmao
coolest chick on the face of the earth my nigs,
She doesnt have to choose between u and her parents. She can have both but she needs to show both of u that she is mature enough to make decisions.Yeah we've been in this situation sort of before, and it's always with the excuses about her parents. I told her she has to pick between her parents or our future. Hopefully she'll bust ass and we'll get out of this place.
But yeah as far as pay goes it sucks. Not doing it for the cash though, just the experience that will get me the cash in the future
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Like tom said. Well, its exactly like tom said actually. That man is a genius!
where did john go with all his women problems, those are more fun to answer
and thank you chris!
and thank you chris!
I thought my previous statement was clear ohh well young your still young. I understand where your coming from with experience will help. Or you can get a damn associates degree and do the same thing. Im in need of sex after this drill weekend lol.