The Relationship Thread
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Whats his name?
The thing is, I'm not down for hooking up. I've been in situations where I could've hooked up and as much as I would've loved to bone the girl, I just don't feel right doing it. At all. It goes against everything I believe in.
But I am all up for trying to make conversations with girls, go out on dates (yes, I do know the difference between dates and actually dating lol), etc. I just haven't gotten to THAT point yet lol. I've been under a rock my entire life. I've never been much of a social person from the get-go. I'm like my dad...we're both very shy.
Bro just do it the way Han does in Tokyo Drift
Take it from me, girls love guys that do karaoke!
Bet youre amazing at karaoke though
AnimeKid
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Haven't laid the pipe in a little over a year now. Not gunna lie it really sucks, but Im not into the whole random hook up thing. If I could just have a really close friend with a connection that I hook up with every now and then I wouldn't mind that. A relationship would be better though. Problem is that in order to get girls around here you either need to have money and be absolutely freaking chisled or settle for fat ugly chicks with no pesonailty that are creepy as well.
Thats fine if youre not down for hooking up with random girls. But "not to that point yet" is a weak excuse. You need to just suck it up and try to challenge yourself. If you just sit around and wait for "that point" it will never come.
i don't buy that either. I'm not chiseled and I found a woman. And I still drive my civic with 237k miles! Go in match.com or something.
Easy Jeffrey you've been with the girl about a week. You sound like one of those clingy girls on fbook that have a different bf every week.
Pardon my tone I am hungover.
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Actually been with her two months...
Post #743 just a few pages back, march 20 something. You said "single life again"
:O sounds like a week to me bro
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Here's the deal. You need a friend/friends who can help you break the barrier. You'll always be more comfortable around your boys. Go to a bar/some party with a friend/some friends, drink a bit to loosen up, and talk to girls. Don't talk to them with the intention of banging them out, but talk to them. It will help you. Do this a few times. Alcohol is a great social lubricant, USE IT.
Find a girl attractive? Get a few drinks in you (know your f***ing limit! If one or two will get you buzzed, that's fine. DO NOT get smangered out. Just a little buzz), talk to her, find common interests. Find out what kind of music she's into, movies, sports, activities etc. Just a little bit, don't pry all crazy. Gauge her personality. Not digging her? Cut the small talk down, and make an exit. Digging her? Get her number, and TELL HER (don't ask) that you want to take her out to dinner sometime. That is all. If she's down, you'll get her number. Wait a day or two to text her. Text her, tell her something along these lines: "So I'm thinking italian, this Saturday. You free?" notice how I didn't ask her, I made a suggestion. Women like confidence. You're not being bossy, or a d**k, you're showing her that when needed, you can be assertive, and that you are confident (even though you're still working on your confidence, this will push you in the right direction). If she's free, and down, you are on your way.
Blam. As crash said, women like karaoke! It shows them that you can sing (women love it, trust me. I'm a singer, and even though I don't sing much other than with my band etc., when I do acoustic stuff, women get all 'OMFGGG BANG ME OUT'), and that you like to have fun. It also shows that you have confidence in yourself. I would suggest going out and doing karaoke with a few guy friends first, so that you don't look like a stuttering fool in front of some chick you are interested in.
OH, one more thing. That girl you are interested in, that you're good friends with? Yeah not gonna happen. You're in the friendzone, and there is no coming out of that s**t.
I'm comin up on a year without dicking down. At first it was driving me crazy, not so much now. I may smash on this girl, though, just because I know she's down to get the guts beat. I've got so much stuff going on right now, that it's not on my list of priorities. I don't have time to think half the time haha.
A little, but fun.
You... you are going to get burned bad juggling all these girls. Bang em out and send em on their way. Keeping a bunch of girls on a leash in the dark has never ended good for anyone in the history of man-dom.