Based on the results you posted, the tests pointed to the fuel pump. Since that time, your test results changed and now point to a different problem. If you want to solve the problem, then stick with the tests.
From this point forward, be sure to repeat your tests multiple times. In the meantime, prepare to return the fuel pump you purchased.
oh I'm ready for the testing. i really want to get this solved.
i'm not going to return the pump, as the other one was all 'rotted' out on the top, and didn't run when we 'hot-wired' it to the battery. IF we can get this solved, i'm expecting this car to run another 100K mile (crossing fingers, wishful thinking?)
as soon as my husband gets home, we're going to do the tests you mentioned above, and get back to you tonight for the next steps.
Then we have a house-full tomorrow all day, into the evening...so i don't know if we'll get back to it. When i post the results of the above tests, the next time i'll be able to go to the next step will most likely be Sunday afternoon, after church.
I really really appreciate you walking me thru this Ron.