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Talking to a few people. Nothing serious. Just having fun. But one of them I've known for like 3ish years sat me down and told me he's had the biggest crush on me for a long time. Came out of nowhere. :shock: He's hot too. And makes good money.
 


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Ocean breeze, can't beat it.

Talking to a few people. Nothing serious. Just having fun. But one of them I've known for like 3ish years sat me down and told me he's had the biggest crush on me for a long time. Came out of nowhere. :shock: He's hot too. And makes good money.
Try 'em all before you buy the most expensive one :lol:
You sound almost identical to this girl on another forum across the country from you in Bawstin
 

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Ocean breeze, can't beat it.

Try 'em all before you buy the most expensive one :lol:
You sound almost identical to this girl on another forum across the country from you in Bawstin
Haha how so?
 


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Lex I told you that in private... now lets make some tall babies!
 

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I'm just over here with my 5'9" self..
 

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Talking to a few people. Nothing serious. Just having fun. But one of them I've known for like 3ish years sat me down and told me he's had the biggest crush on me for a long time. Came out of nowhere. :shock: He's hot too. And makes good money.
So is that a good :shock: or a bad :shock:? I only ask because I may say something similar to that to someone soon.

And I obviouslyyy got the hot part down, the money part not so much :x $600/mth for school loans FTL.
 

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Talking to a few people. Nothing serious. Just having fun. But one of them I've known for like 3ish years sat me down and told me he's had the biggest crush on me for a long time. Came out of nowhere. :shock: He's hot too. And makes good money.

Sounds like a huge mistake.

And thinking about money in a relationship is a huge no no.
 

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sounds like someones a gold digger.
 

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IDK, she works with Tesla's all day.
If she were a true GD she could just hit up the customers considering they run around $100K iirc
 

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IDK, she works with Tesla's all day.
If she were a true GD she could just hit up the customers considering they run around $100K iirc
$120k loaded, not taking the "D" into consideration, which has a ton of goodies that I'm sure jumps the price up.
 

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I used to not let a guy's income judge if I date them or not; but I quickly learned that once I was making significantly more than them I carried the weight in some type of way. Every. Single. One. Of. Them. I am NOT the type of person to hand out my money either.
When a woman makes more than a man if can be difficult on a woman's end, and we definitely don't want a mooch. I'm not saying every man that makes less is that, but it can feel like it at times. When a man makes a decent amount of money equal to a woman or more, it creates a sense of security for us.

Alex, we don't talk much anymore and I apologize for that, but damn girl....slow down. Having fun is 1 thing, but don't jump into something again.

I am about to give up on this wedding. I hate blowing money and just don't know what to do anymore. If I hock my ring I can pay for the venue and food alone. lol :D
 

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$120k loaded, not taking the "D" into consideration, which has a ton of goodies that I'm sure jumps the price up.
yeah, was just trying to go between base and loaded, pre-D. Love to get one eventually, no AWD needed
 

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Here's a scenario. When I proposed to Jess, I couldn't afford a fancy ring. I paid 800 bucks, it was simply what I could afford at the time. She loves it, but I've tossed around the idea of getting her something genuinely nice before we get married. Would that be weird? Or worth it?

Would kind of be like proposing twice lol
 

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Maybe get it and surprise her on wedding day with it when asked to present rings..?
Then everyone there gets to see a genuine reaction + be recorded via photo or video or both
And she'll love ya even more and probably her family will as well :lol:
 

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Have a date on Friday night. This is with a guy I used to go out with before. Super nice, good friend of mine (We've had a thing before).

The height that god intended man: 6 foot 2 inches
Matt was 6'3". And I was eye to eye with him when I wore my heels. But 6'2" is fair enough ;)

So is that a good :shock: or a bad :shock:? I only ask because I may say something similar to that to someone soon.

And I obviouslyyy got the hot part down, the money part not so much :x $600/mth for school loans FTL.
It was a good :shock:, just I did not expect it and seriously had no idea. We were cool but it's not like we hung out a ton. And he's being very respectful about me just getting out of a relationship.

Sounds like a huge mistake.

And thinking about money in a relationship is a huge no no.
This, and jumping into a relationship immediately usually yields bad s***.
You guys think I"m trying to date this one this soon? Nooooooo way. Just having some fun!

sounds like someones a gold digger.
IDK, she works with Tesla's all day.
If she were a true GD she could just hit up the customers considering they run around $100K iirc
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$120k loaded, not taking the "D" into consideration, which has a ton of goodies that I'm sure jumps the price up.
Some are, some aren't. The P85D owners will be though.

I used to not let a guy's income judge if I date them or not; but I quickly learned that once I was making significantly more than them I carried the weight in some type of way. Every. Single. One. Of. Them. I am NOT the type of person to hand out my money either.
When a woman makes more than a man if can be difficult on a woman's end, and we definitely don't want a mooch. I'm not saying every man that makes less is that, but it can feel like it at times. When a man makes a decent amount of money equal to a woman or more, it creates a sense of security for us.

Alex, we don't talk much anymore and I apologize for that, but damn girl....slow down. Having fun is 1 thing, but don't jump into something again.

I am about to give up on this wedding. I hate blowing money and just don't know what to do anymore. If I hock my ring I can pay for the venue and food alone. lol :D
I know, I miss you. We need to talk more.

I'm not jumping into anything soon, trust me. Just enjoying the scenery of singleness :lol: I'm not seriously focused on income either. It's just a bonus.
 

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$120k loaded, not taking the "D" into consideration, which has a ton of goodies that I'm sure jumps the price up.
You always take the D into consideration. :naughty:

It was a good :shock:, just I did not expect it and seriously had no idea. We were cool but it's not like we hung out a ton. And he's being very respectful about me just getting out of a relationship.
Oh, well that's good! I had a stalker when I was in 8th grade. 6th grade girl walked into my class and gave me a giant heart made out of construction paper. She wouldn't leave me alone for months. All good now, she's not as crazy as I thought she was. We hooked up a few years ago... one of the best pizza deliveries I'd ever made :lol:
 


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