my questions lie in these parts and this statement...
all the real jdm goodies? i see rotas, diy/ebay headlamps, and a questionable kit. the gas door things is just plain weaksauce. ballasts? do you even know what they are, from that statement it sounds like ur talkin out of your ass.
on to suspension... bilstein shocks with what kind of coilovers? what brand rear strut bar? what brand/size rear sway bar?
there are other questionable underhood items but those are harder to prove
i don't think you're a bad guy or a liar, just uninformed