Here's a pic of the Type-R without a wing. Not sure what else you could really do to tone it down though.
I guess I didn't inherit the "tone it down" gene. On the contrary, I bought the Type R mainly due to it's fantastical style, then wrapped it to make it stand out even more. What's funny is I'm kind of an introvert, but whether I'm driving this crazy car at Laguna Seca raceway or to work, I feel like Superman. All the aero parts keep the car very stable on the straight aways, and the wing puts the fear of God into Beemers and Mustangs alike.