As for getting pulled over, I don't get pulled over often, but if I have a passenger I perfer for them not to try to talk me out of the ticket. If I think I can talk my way out of it I will talk my way out of it. I'M the one paying for the ticket/insurance, so let ME handle it. Generally the officer also does not want you to talk if he did not ask you to.
I never said my car was fast (I think we had this discussion before) nor do I think I drive a madly expensive car. I drive a 1998 Civic. One previous owner. It didn't look new when I bought it, nor did it smell new (it wasn't crappy, just needed some cleaning). Now it looks and smells much newer. I put alot of work into my car, even if my work doesn't consist of boring and stroking or doing some other performance modification.
I detail, that is my specialty. Do you enjoy spending up to 12 hours on a project just to have someone mess it up? Oh, and I try to make my rules sound anal so that it discourages people mooching off me. I hope I explained it well. Try thinking about my reasoning before you post.