Here you go jay.
1) when replying/posting click "go advanced" button.
2) at the this point you should all thready have the embedding code copied to your clipboard.
3) click youtube icon, "Please enter the option for your [YOUTUBE] tag:" dialog box will appear. whatever you type here will show on the header of the video window. i will type balls for our example.
4)[ YOUTUBE="balls"][/YOUTUBE] that's what you will see nex.
5) [ YOUTUBE="balls"]in between these brackets[/YOUTUBE]
In between those brackets you will paste the youtube embedding code.
6) Click submit reply
[YOUTUBE="balls"]<object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/AyMotVGNKL0&hl=en_US&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/AyMotVGNKL0&hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>[/YOUTUBE]
now post away my young grass hip hopper.