Here is my 2 cents. I think the hood is fine, it isn't the Black Widow hood if anyone knows what Im talking about! With that color I guess I can see how people are saying something is off or missing... I like the color but I don't at the same time, its one of things I can't put my finger on.... The rims are clean, the car its self is clean, I actually think the shaved moldings are done very well and look awesome..... Not everyone needs to be OEM to have a nice car.....
Personally especially after that photo shop that was actually done very well lol, I think you should go White, I have always liked white cars with shaved moldings and was going to find a shaved white civic but that photoshop does show it!
IMO Drop it as we all know, leave the moldings alone, maybe get some JDM Side Markers to break it up if you want, then get an Si Wing Paint Matched, and leave it. If you do change colors, I say white, with what I just said, then paint match everything, Maybe an 99-00 Bumper with an OEM lip... That car would be hotter than it is now..