i also have a 95 sedan. trust me when i say do your bushings and ball joints before lowering it. i went with energy suspension bushings and it made a huge difference. make sure everything is up to spec before you start modding it. and as far as having a kid, it wont make a difference. i have a 5 yr old and a 1 yr old and they love it. the oldest has been in everything from street rods to lowriders, she loves hydros. as long as you build it with quality components and its safe, shell be ok. oh and stay away from ebay suspension and motor parts. good luck with your build