*inhale* Ok here's what you do.:
Read up on suspension.
Then get your suspension taken care of. Thats ALWAYS step number one for modding a car.
Read up on turbos.
Go to cheapturbo.com and dsmtrader.com.
Figure out how much this project is going to run you and what your goals are.
Get your Turbo/IC/Piping/BOV/FMU/Injectors.
Buy a d16y8 or y6 for 500-700$.
Turbo the biatch.
Watch it fly.