See I don't like that. Because that's when people get bored.
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I was beginning to wonder. How ya fairin this time?
people who say long distance relationships dont work are typically immature people i have noticed. they DO work, you just have to have trust, something that young people have lost or never developed...
I just honestly don't see the point
one day you might. dealing in absolutes is a difficult standard to live by tootsie loo 
I did the man-whore thing (safely!) for a little while. It was fun at the time.
Ah I know how that goes. I've been there. You get into the mundane aspect of the relationship, and things get stagnant. This is pretty early on for you to feel that way.. that's not good. Tell him, communicate, and actively work on it.
This makes no sense coming from you, of all people.
Well, as I stated above, I was straight ENGAGED to a chick who lived three hours away (I had moved in with her, but moved out after a few months because we were fighting so much). I don't know anyone who has ever had success with a long distance relationship, though.I just honestly don't see the point
Speaking of long distance.. I have a chick that lives 3 hours away showing interest. She's cute, and into cars, but I'm not down for that big of a distance. Kinda sucks.
Talking to/taking this other chick out. She's cool, has a pretty face, but her body is WEIRD. I dunno how I feel about her yet lol.
I know, I'm not happy about it. It's not that I'm losing interest, not at ALL, but I just feel like he's getting bored. But we are going on vacation next week together. Maybe that will help.
And how is her body weird?
If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it...I know, I'm not happy about it. It's not that I'm losing interest, not at ALL, but I just feel like he's getting bored. But we are going on vacation next week together. Maybe that will help.
And how is her body weird?
God that'd be so weird if I girl proposed to a guy...
I'm pretty sure we're done.
I knew it probably wasn't gonna last anyways because she's going three hours away to Delaware this summer, and I'm going three hours away up north for school in August. But anyways, the kicker is she cheated on me, and I pretty much saw it coming for the last two weeks.
I'm good lol. Work has kept my mind off of it, and I've come to learn the "real" person she is. It's amazing how you can be with someone for over a year and a half and watch it get thrown away. lol oh well. I can't wait to go to college. I'm not looking for a relationship for awhile now.
This is pretty much the demise of my relationship. Her reason was always "I got bored" and "I wanna be single and have fun". However, don't fret Alex. If you guys truly love each other, it should work out. My ex and I went through so much s**t from everyone and it's amazing how we got through any of it. I'm slowly coming to terms with the truth that it's over, but I think I'm doing fine. Been talking to this other girl and chilling with my brother.
Good for you!
Yikes dude I'm sorry... f**k bitches get money!
I know he loves me a lot, and he gets worried that I get bored of him. It's just that things get so routine, and we don't go out a lot (maybe because we've been pretty broke for a while). I bums me out.
Spice it up. Find things to do that don't require money. Go out to parks, or find some place to hike, or have a picnic or something. Little things make it interesting. Ooh, ride bikes. That's fun lol.
I'm going through the same thing with my girl right now. Sometimes I'm just blah about us hanging out and other times I'm really excited to see her. But I do know that I love her because I really have no desire to be with anybody else. And lately I've found myself doing things for her and planning things with her without even realizing it, which makes me happy because it reminds me that i truly love her. Also since the weather is nice things are starting to get a little more exciting. We went bike riding last weekend which was a blast, and we both started running together on Wednesdays after work which I absolutely love. There are ways you can shake things up if your broke.
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Yeah... I know. It's just that we both work long days and always have projects on the weekends we try to accomplish. I know I'm making excuses but that's just what seems like happens. We have been riding motorcycles together a lot though.
Yeah, that's what I need to do then I guess.
That's good, you just gotta find something you both like doing together. Me and my ex liked to go on walks together or go down to the creek and walk around in the water.
I just want to go do more exciting things. And he comes up with great ideas. We just never follow through.