If all else fails, lol. I just hope to find someone that can be with me, and that is no easy task, I admit
The Relationship Thread
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I do, and sometimes I will put a button down on when I feel like it, but I'm not looking If a girl wore a T-shirt and jeans, I'd probably still be attracted to her. It's all about how she acts and presents her personality for me. I like a pretty face as much as the next guy, but a pretty face with an ugly personality means nothing.
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Why is that? If you don't mind me asking, what are the reasons for the split? If I'm being too personal, let me know.
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It's hard to explain, even I don't completely understand it. One of those, "I need to find myself" situations. Sounded like a f**king tampon commercial or some s**t. If I need to find myself, I just do mushrooms and watch Big Daddy
Yeeeesssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!
And let me add, that's it's YOU, not me with that reply.
I don't air out my relationship often at all b/c I am happy with it. But just 2 weeks ago I threatened to throw my BF to the curb upon our lease renewal if he didn't 'find himself', get some priorities more in line(he's done amazingly well and much better than his friends but there are a couple issues pressing that I won't marry him until they're cleared), and help me out with our JOINT life. aka help around the house, appreciation, etc.
It's been proven since the dawn of friggin time that women mature in a lot of aspects quicker than men. I'm not saying women are smarter, I'm saying maturity happens sooner and quicker. So before you lump it into the 'women' category, think about why you're single and living with your parents, play video games and complain constantly, and sit yourself down and think where YOU WENT WRONG TOO.
Women are quick to leave b/c of lack of emotional connection(which also entales maturity), and security. Men leave out of boredom and/or crazy b****es.
/raaaaaaaawrrr
Couldn't of said it better myself.Yeeeesssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!
And let me add, that's it's YOU, not me with that reply.
I don't air out my relationship often at all b/c I am happy with it. But just 2 weeks ago I threatened to throw my BF to the curb upon our lease renewal if he didn't 'find himself', get some priorities more in line(he's done amazingly well and much better than his friends but there are a couple issues pressing that I won't marry him until they're cleared), and help me out with our JOINT life. aka help around the house, appreciation, etc.
It's been proven since the dawn of friggin time that women mature in a lot of aspects quicker than men. I'm not saying women are smarter, I'm saying maturity happens sooner and quicker. So before you lump it into the 'women' category, think about why you're single and living with your parents, play video games and complain constantly, and sit yourself down and think where YOU WENT WRONG TOO.
Women are quick to leave b/c of lack of emotional connection(which also entales maturity), and security. Men leave out of boredom and/or crazy b****es.
/raaaaaaaawrrr
When a relationship ends, it's because of both parties 99% of the time.
I LOVE hearing a guy say he left a girl b/c she complained about him 'not getting her, never understanding her'. Well f*ck! If a guy took the time and cared about what she does, and find out why she's triggered by certain things, MAYBE he would 'get her'!
Now that is all void if the b***h is crazy. But you have to be able to properly determine crazy too!
There were some things we both needed to work on, and she admits that I did a great job. I'm a very tentative person at times, and that didn't sit well with her, so I made sure to work on it all. Then when it came to the end, it was just out of my control. At first I was really angry with her and still am a bit angry, but more than that I'm just unhappy with the end result and my lack of power in the relationship.
@Puma - been there before lol.
my line of work doesn't allow me to have a girl really. To the point where at the moment... i dont really want one. Too much stress, too much drama, too much insecurity. why? .... because i photograph models. lol.
my line of work doesn't allow me to have a girl really. To the point where at the moment... i dont really want one. Too much stress, too much drama, too much insecurity. why? .... because i photograph models. lol.
And now is the time to reflect, and dissect the relationship apart. Figure out where you both messed up, figure out where you both or 1 one of you excelled. Assess it all, decide if you should change how any of it was handled for better or worse, and move on.
By move on I don't mean find another girl. I mean work on yourself, enjoy life, enjoy the track since you're doing pretty well, and the right time will come for a girl. Never force it....the good ones come when you're not looking.
So true. I didn't even WANT a boyfriend when Matt came along. Then I couldn't help itBy move on I don't mean find another girl. I mean work on yourself, enjoy life, enjoy the track since you're doing pretty well, and the right time will come for a girl. Never force it....the good ones come when you're not looking.
Same with Rob and I. Neither of us were interested, and he offered to help rebuild my head b/c he had most of the parts I needed. I declined, he insisted. He came over, and there was this underlying, awkward energy the entire time. The last night we worked on it he asked me to dinner, and it's been 'aaaaaaawwww' since then.So true. I didn't even WANT a boyfriend when Matt came along. Then I couldn't help it
He said he knew he snagged a good one when I bought dinner the 1st night we worked on the car, and made dinner the 2nd night.
That's how my last relationship was. I didn't even want the commitment of having fish, but the first time she came over, I knew I had to go for it.
I did learn a lot about myself with her, things I do right, things I do wrong; and have made effort to become a better person based on that. Just back to square one, I guess
I did learn a lot about myself with her, things I do right, things I do wrong; and have made effort to become a better person based on that. Just back to square one, I guess
And now is the time to reflect, and dissect the relationship apart. Figure out where you both messed up, figure out where you both or 1 one of you excelled. Assess it all, decide if you should change how any of it was handled for better or worse, and move on.
By move on I don't mean find another girl. I mean work on yourself, enjoy life, enjoy the track since you're doing pretty well, and the right time will come for a girl. Never force it....the good ones come when you're not looking.
So true. I didn't even WANT a boyfriend when Matt came along. Then I couldn't help it
Bingo. I'm taking my time in finding someone. I have a bit of a different situation, so it's making it a bit more difficult for me to really want to give someone the time of day, but I've learned (and only within the past few months) that I need and WANT to get my own s**t together. I'll take my time, take care of me, and someone will come along, when they come along. I'm long overdue for making some changes in my life (need to move, I've lived in the same area for the majority of my life. A change of pace would be nice), and right now, that's my focus.Same with Rob and I. Neither of us were interested, and he offered to help rebuild my head b/c he had most of the parts I needed. I declined, he insisted. He came over, and there was this underlying, awkward energy the entire time. The last night we worked on it he asked me to dinner, and it's been 'aaaaaaawwww' since then.
He said he knew he snagged a good one when I bought dinner the 1st night we worked on the car, and made dinner the 2nd night.
And that's good. Never force anything. It won't work out like it should.
With Matt and I, it's so natural. He's like my best friend and my love. I've never ever found myself wanting so much to help him. Do things for him. Make him feel better when he's upset. I'm normally a pretty selfish, closed up person in terms of my feelings towards people. But he brings them all out. When we met, we just talked and I COULD NOT get him out of my head even if I tried.
With Matt and I, it's so natural. He's like my best friend and my love. I've never ever found myself wanting so much to help him. Do things for him. Make him feel better when he's upset. I'm normally a pretty selfish, closed up person in terms of my feelings towards people. But he brings them all out. When we met, we just talked and I COULD NOT get him out of my head even if I tried.
Same way with Rob. Every move I make is in consideration of him too. And of course our puppers.
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I guess POF is worth a couple laughs
