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Rob and I are now discussing when we will get married. Since one of our dogs is having super expensive medical issues, I don't think we're having a ceremony. ..maybe just a cheap destination wedding and reception months to follow. :/

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Rob and I are now discussing when we will get married. Since one of our dogs is having super expensive medical issues, I don't think we're having a ceremony. ..maybe just a cheap destination wedding and reception months to follow. :/

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No!! Wait to have the one you want!
At this rate it'll be years. We want something small snd private anyhow, with a larger open reception after.

We're at the point that we really don't care who is at the ceremony. We just know the reception will have many guys invited with girlfriends that will be thrown out instantly if they even try to show up.

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At this rate it'll be years. We want something small snd private anyhow, with a larger open reception after.

We're at the point that we really don't care who is at the ceremony. We just know the reception will have many guys invited with girlfriends that will be thrown out instantly if they even try to show up.

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Yikes. That's no good.
You're telling me. Sidneys expenses are in the thousands now. No new car now, no wedding as planned, and probably not having my 30th birthday. Ya know. Only my biggest birthday yet.

I wanna pout so badly, but it makes me so happy having Rob insist upon using money meant for us, on Sidney instead.

God I wish someone in our families would fund this wedding! Lol

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You're telling me. Sidneys expenses are in the thousands now. No new car now, no wedding as planned, and probably not having my 30th birthday. Ya know. Only my biggest birthday yet.

I wanna pout so badly, but it makes me so happy having Rob insist upon using money meant for us, on Sidney instead.

God I wish someone in our families would fund this wedding! Lol

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Isn't that how it worked in the old days?

And that's way awesome about Rob doing that for you =) he's a keeper.
 

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Isn't that how it worked in the old days?

And that's way awesome about Rob doing that for you =) he's a keeper.
It's tradition still. The father of the bride pays for the wedding. I have no father, and neither of us are close with family. We need to win the lotto!

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It's tradition still. The father of the bride pays for the wedding. I have no father, and neither of us are close with family. We need to win the lotto!

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Well I remembered there was a relationship thread...ha-ha time to rant I guess.

Well after I spoke to my wife last night about the his and hers night hawks , lets just say im going to sign divorce papers soon. I felt like I knew it was coming but not yesterday...

I have to keep moving because otherwise time will leave me behind.
 

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Why not try to make it work? You knew it was coming.....sounds like effort to work through things hasn't happened

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Why not try to make it work? You knew it was coming.....sounds like effort to work through things hasn't happened

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"Till death do us part" just doesn't seem to be that long anymore.




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Marriage doesn't seem to be much o a lot of people these days, stuff gets rough and people walk away.. No attempt at repair or any remorse it seems like, "oh well that didn't work, no big deal"

Just weird these days
 

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Current in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and some months. We argue a bit but make up quickly, she actually argued with me about getting my 95 Civic cause of how it looked but now she's driving it and she loves it and its even named after her. I do miss the single life but I wouldnt give her up for the world....cept my civic...I'd probably give her up for my civic. And she knows that..
 

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Well I remembered there was a relationship thread...ha-ha time to rant I guess.

Well after I spoke to my wife last night about the his and hers night hawks , lets just say im going to sign divorce papers soon. I felt like I knew it was coming but not yesterday...

I have to keep moving because otherwise time will leave me behind.
What is that?
 

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"Till death do us part" just doesn't seem to be that long anymore.




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Ha-ha it's not that, of course in the course of marriage you have your vows and trust me I have tried and am more than willing to keep trying and would like for "long" to be the rest of my life but in marriage I have to respect her decisions as well. I have never been one to give up but my wife is different. She doesn't see things that way. everything is very practical and in white and black for her and she admits this. She has changed a lot since we were together way back in high school. I prefer for her to be happy and for me to see my daughter than to have her live with me and feel unhappy.

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We have been trying for a really long time but never discussed the divorce, it was mentioned once but we decided to keep trudging and se if we could get out of our "slump" alive and together but I guess this is the towel and I would keep going but like I said...I have to respect her, she is her own woman even though we are bonded together. And if she feels that she can be happy working through this separately then I'll do it for her because it was also a part of our vows. That "Against all odds and time, that if we were to ever become separate in both spirit and heart, to help each other through it until happiness shines again..." and it goes on but you get the gist..

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It was a reply in the "what are you doing/did today" post yesterday. A member found a couple whom modified their Hondas together.
 
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SpeedTechnik

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Marriage doesn't seem to be much o a lot of people these days, stuff gets rough and people walk away.. No attempt at repair or any remorse it seems like, "oh well that didn't work, no big deal"

Just weird these days
I agree, and it so happens my wife now thinks this way... she was different back then but things change over long periods of time.

Ohhhhh I remember that thread.
yeah ;) damn thos Hondas were nice
 
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I agree, and it so happens my wife now thinks this way... she was different back then but things change over long periods of time.
My parents were married for 26 years and then my mom just left one day while my dad was at work, I just have never understood how after 25 years you jut decide that you don't love someone lol

You obviously cared enough to Marty them and be happy for 20 years
 

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I'm sorry Speed :???: that really sucks.
 

SpeedTechnik

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My parents were married for 26 years and then my mom just left one day while my dad was at work, I just have never understood how after 25 years you jut decide that you don't love someone lol

You obviously cared enough to Marty them and be happy for 20 years
Yeah, I find it hard to understand as well but do. It happens I guess.
 


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