Got some catching up to do here!!
I'm not leaving this state or my job out here. Nooooo way.
you guys.
I know, but like I said. I really don't want to date anyone else. I would like to settle on this one I THINK. Not right now, wayyyy later down the road. We've talked about it, and apparently (I drunkenly found out this weekend) his best friend knows something about that that I don't.
Lol I was kidding (partially ;D)
No one can tell you how to feel, and regardless of what anyone says, you're gonna do what you're gonna do, but I get the feeling you may overwhelm dude if you don't slow your roll. That's just the impression I get. Take a deep breath, relax, and let it happen. Take it from someone with plenty of experience: do you!
Um, it's Miami. There's a bit of EVERYTHING there, you'd actually fit in quite well [no creepin]
Never been a fan of Miami. Too fake, foo party, too horseshit for my tastes.
Even more off topic, how much would a tattoo on the back of your thigh hurt?
This is completely subjective. Everyone experiences pain differently. The one place I can attest to being painful (that is notorious for being painful) personally, is the under side of your arm. That s**t hurts bad.
Alex it sounds like you've become dependent on him being in your life. Which, is one of the worst things you can do. You need to be independent on your own still. You also need together time, but independence first. Let guards down as obstacles come, but don't throw them down instantly or keep them up always.
You need to sit down with him and stay calm. Ask him how he feels living together. Tell him you want to but make sure he knows you respect his decision and show it. Have him explain why he may not want to and accept it. Tell him you'd like a place of your own so he can come over, but money is tight. Ask him to help you find a place.
Trust me....a guy prefers what I just suggested. Men love self sufficient women, but not too sufficient. Men still want to be there when they feel they can fix things. If he can help you find a place he feels he is helping, and who knows....maybe he'll fall for you more by doing so. It's all team work. Always.
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Communication is key in anything major as a couple. I agree that you should talk to dude. Don't make it feel like he's being interviewed for a job or something, though. Just let him know what your interests are, find out where he stands first hand, and directly from him, and go from there. As Kelly said, tell him you want to move out, but finances make it impossible to do that alone. Let him know you would be glad to move out with him, if he feels the same. If not, not a big deal, you will get some roommates.
Like Kelly said, we do like a self-sufficient woman. I prefer a girl that doesn't need me in the slightest, for anything (aside from man s**t like lifting heavy stuff, opening stuck pickle jars, cutting things in half with a Saws-all etc.), but rather prefers my company. When I KNOW she would be just fine on her own, yet goes out of her way for me, I know it's real. Just my
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