Who Hates their Siblings?

[paulx022]

ok so i decided i can't stand my little shithead brother, So instead of killing him i decided to just make a thread seeing if everybody else hates their brothers/sisters. So post if you like/hate your brother/sister and why. My brother is like 10-12 (somewhere in there) and he's a chunky little douche. I also have a 5 year old little sister who is the sweetest thing ever hah.
Why i hate him:
He touches my s**t and moves it around
He always bothers me to play xbox while i'm trying to
He is a SEVERE momma's and grandma's boy and half the time doesnt even sleep in his own bed.
He tries to act big when his friends are around
He thinks he's the smartest goddamn thing on the planet.
He has a HUGE head
He screams on xbox and talks in an annoying voice
He plays f**king world of warcraft and fable and runescape and all that gay s**t
He tries to talk s**t to me and when i hit him he tries to throw chairs/anything he can get ahold of at me.. and when i say puppy power!! he gets reallllllllyyyy pissed.

He's very nice to me (sometimes when he's not being a cockfuck) and really nice to my girlfriend BUT i'm always mean to him cuz i cant stand the little bastard.

Is this normal lol. I like my sister but hate him.. always have. Please explain

/rant.

reason for post: he bothered me on xbox and im pissed

 

[JohnS.]

What more do you expect from a 10-12 year old?

Your other threads have been creative. But this one is just plain stupid. I love my brother and would take a bullet for him. Granted he's 31 and picked on me like no other when I was little, he has always been there for me through thick and thin.

 

[Raabe]

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[Mr. Jollypants]

He's your familia, your blood. You being the older brother have the obligation of setting the example.

Being 10, he's being normal. You need to set the example. Do it, teach him things you wish you knew at that age (Use common sense. Don't destroy his dreams.) you need to guide him in the right direction.

 

[paulx022]

he's a d**k. period. this isnt supposed to be a creative thread. imagine if your brother did all that s**t on that list.. thats a tenth of the annoying s**t he does.

 

[paulx022]

He's your familia, your blood. You being the older brother have the obligation of setting the example.

Being 10, he's being normal. You need to set the example. Do it, teach him things you wish you knew at that age (Use common sense. Don't destroy his dreams.) you need to guide him in the right direction.

and i just asked my mom he's 13.. wierd. he's not being normal.. i like almost all his friends they are all cool as hell but he is just a f**kin douche.. Thats not normal.

 

[vjf915]

I don't see my brothers and sister enough to hate them. I love the short time I do spend with them. They also made me an uncle of 7 so far.

he is just a f**kin douche..

Well then he obviously takes after you

 

[JohnS.]

He's your familia, your blood. You being the older brother have the obligation of setting the example.

Being 10, he's being normal. You need to set the example. Do it, teach him things you wish you knew at that age (Use common sense. Don't destroy his dreams.) you need to guide him in the right direction.

Exactly. Telling him to f**k off, punching him for doing something you don't like, breaking his things, treating him like s**t period won't help your case at all. If anything, it's just conditioning him to do it more because he's only going to hate you in the end more.

he's a d**k. period. this isnt supposed to be a creative thread. imagine if your brother did all that s**t on that list.. thats a tenth of the annoying s**t he does.

I didn't say this was creative. I didn't say it was supposed to be. I said your other threads have been creative. I just see this thread going no where except a place for you to vent how much your brother pisses you off.

Like Jolly said, you need to be the older brother and be an example for him. If your parent's aren't doing s**t about it, then be the big man and step up and help raise your brother to be someone you'd be proud of.

 

[bizoneoeh]

children hate their siblings.... adults love thier siblings...

 

[Rocky91890]

There is a 3 year age difference between my younger brother and I and I dont hate him i just strongly dislike him. Since he was born he has been the perfect child in my mothers eyes. She loved to remind me of it because every time it was brought up that she liked him more shed always say "well at least he wasnt a mistake"...the kid is 17 parents bought him a 2008 mustang for his 16th birthday and for mine gave me a stack of job applications on my 16th. They bought him a four wheeler for his birthday this year and didnt even call me to tell me happy birthday. The kid plays football and is the mvp for his team 3 years running, but he is 17 and in 8th grade...hes failed 2 years and held back one. If i got below an 85 when I was in school I was grounded, keys taken away even though it was my car in my name with my own insurance...More or less he was a spoiled rotten brat

Sorry for the ranting just felt the need to get it off my chest.

 

[paulx022]

Exactly. Telling him to f**k off, punching him for doing something you don't like, breaking his things, treating him like s**t period won't help your case at all. If anything, it's just conditioning him to do it more because he's only going to hate you in the end more.



I didn't say this was creative. I didn't say it was supposed to be. I said your other threads have been creative. I just see this thread going no where except a place for you to vent how much your brother pisses you off.

Like Jolly said, you need to be the older brother and be an example for him. If your parent's aren't doing s**t about it, then be the big man and step up and help raise your brother to be someone you'd be proud of.

i agree to a point. i dont break his s**t though.. He's just a d**k all the time and i didnt know if it was just me that hates my brother.

 

[paulx022]

I don't see my brothers and sister enough to hate them. I love the short time I do spend with them. They also made me an uncle of 7 so far.



Well then he obviously takes after you

i see what you did there lol

 

[paulx022]

There is a 3 year age difference between my younger brother and I and I dont hate him i just strongly dislike him. Since he was born he has been the perfect child in my mothers eyes. She loved to remind me of it because every time it was brought up that she liked him more shed always say "well at least he wasnt a mistake"...the kid is 17 parents bought him a 2008 mustang for his 16th birthday and for mine gave me a stack of job applications on my 16th. They bought him a four wheeler for his birthday this year and didnt even call me to tell me happy birthday. The kid plays football and is the mvp for his team 3 years running, but he is 17 and in 8th grade...hes failed 2 years and held back one. If i got below an 85 when I was in school I was grounded, keys taken away even though it was my car in my name with my own insurance...More or less he was a spoiled rotten brat

Sorry for the ranting just felt the need to get it off my chest.

and you'll grow up better and have a better life than he will. A. tell you parents to f**k off B. tell brother he's a dumbass little b***h who wont amount to anything.

 

[Mr. Jollypants]

Let me put it this way.

How would you feel, if your brother died this instant? All the things you said about him, all the negative things, the hating him, you no longer had a brother?

 

[paulx022]

children hate their siblings.... adults love thier siblings...

well seeings how im 18 im technically an adult. i moved out but moved back in because paying bills sucks.. i think what you meant to say is

people who live with their siblings hate them.. older people with their own lives love their siblings.

 

[joe7987]

Here's the situation.

It's pretty normal for you to hate him right now. Your maturity level mixing with his maturity level = fail. You will probably hate him until he turns about 16 (or whenever he approaches adult maturity). Eventually, you'll grow closer and be cool with each other.

In the mean time, realize that he looks up to you. Realize that you probably will not get along for a while. Just don't be TOO mean to him, and don't be mean to him just because you hate him. Only be mean to him when he's mean to you. Kill them with kindness... it works with everybody in the world.

This is the way it works, and will most likely work for you.. unless you do something really bad to make him really hate you.

 

[JohnS.]

Just because you're "technically" adult doesn't make you an adult.

 

[Mr. Jollypants]

well seeings how im 18 im technically an adult. i moved out but moved back in because paying bills sucks.. i think what you meant to say is

people who live with their siblings hate them.. older people with their own lives love their siblings.

I don't think that's what he meant, what he's saying is, adults learn to deal and get over the s**t and love their siblings no matter what, and children don't deal with it.

 

[joe7987]

well seeings how im 18 im technically an adult. i moved out but moved back in because paying bills sucks.. i think what you meant to say is

people who live with their siblings hate them.. older people with their own lives love their siblings.

18 isn't adult yet (for most).. Not IMO. I know that on a maturity level, I hit adulthood at about 19 or 20. Meanwhile, I'm 23 now, and many of my peers are still stuck in high school maturity.

 

[paulx022]

Let me put it this way.

How would you feel, if your brother died this instant? All the things you said about him, all the negative things, the hating him, you no longer had a brother?

honestly you might think im a d**k.. but i really wouldnt be too upset, yeah id be sad and everything, id be sad for my parents and sister but you have to understand this kid is beyond f**king douche.. he's about 20 times worst than me, and just because he dies doesnt make him any less of a twat.

Let me put it this way.
When Michael jackson died.. everybody loved him. When he was alive, everybody hated him and wouldnt in a million years let their kids around them.
Bottom Line.. Just because Micheal jackson is dead, doesnt make him any less of a sick piece of s**t who undoubtedly ruined many kids lives by the sick and crude s**t he did to them..