post a pic of your car as it is now if you have one...but in my opinion..
def paint lips, if your fog housings are black then paint them but if they are the gunmetal grey color keep them that way. as for paint colors..are you wanting an oem honda color or custom. either way there are alot of nice honda colors. its mainly what you want and the look you are going for, but i understand you are looking for opinions so cool. in my opinion, id go with electron blue pearl (si blue), super sonic blue pearl, phonix yellow, championship white...lol i dunno there are so many nice colors. if i ever win the lottery im gonna get a civic of each color lol. but do you have a certain color scheme goin on or anything?