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February 14, 2012
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Yea I have a townhome..no place for any of that.
Dude. You have a boyfriend. Make that s**t happen!
*soft voice gentle head nod*
"We're takin' our time."
AKA he has serious manners and is intimidated by me and I just want a good dickin!!!!!!!
Bought the wifey some super badass roses. They were tie dye or some weird shït.
Also got her some new clothes.
I had to work 18 hours yesterday, but i had dinner and a beer waiting when i got home along with a super sexy suprise in the sack as soon as i got out of the shower...
All in all not a bad day...
Also got her some new clothes.
I had to work 18 hours yesterday, but i had dinner and a beer waiting when i got home along with a super sexy suprise in the sack as soon as i got out of the shower...
All in all not a bad day...
We have the folding closet doors. So he puts it up against the two doors semi open and puts the board in between for the opening. I told him if there's a fire in the house and he's stuck in the contraption I'm running out with Angelina and he can figure out the rest for himself and explain later.
Not gonna lie, I miss doing that kind of stuff.
As always in the world of CC OT
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Then your woman demands quite a bit, or you think she does. It's a constant loving nature and appreciation is all I need. Random little things here and there. By no means do I like gifts, and esp expensive ones.
I swear if a dude got me a Chanel bag I'd be happy, but if you're going to drop $600+ it better be on a vacation, or many gifts...not just 1 item. I'm quite simple to please.
We don't get snow here to do that, and my man hates the snow anyhow.
No, I'm not married.
See, you don't like Valentine's Day because you miss the whole point of it. It's not to make up for a year of non-loving with one day of showing that you care....
That's like saying Christmas is the day to be nice to others, while you be a d**k to everyone in your path for the other 364 days.
Or that everybody should spit on you every day except for your birthday.
By your logic, holidays are a complete waste of time.
It's a no-s**t situation that you should be nice to your significant other and show that you care.... You love each other every day, but you don't celebrate it every day.
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Anyway, had a good day yesterday.
My girlfriend hooked me up with an awesome cake. She used to work at a bakery and maintained friendship with the baker. She bakes a particular cake that is one of my favorite foods of all time. German chocolate frosting (she actually roasted and diced the nuts, shaved the coconut, and made the frosting), chocolate cake, and fresh strawberry filling, with strawberries on top.
I made my girlfriend some chocolate covered strawberries (white and milk chocolate), and then we made dinner together (mussels, lobster tail, and scalloped potatoes). After that we watched two movies (The Switch and Hangover II). Long story short, I had a good Valentine's Day
My girlfriend hooked me up with an awesome cake. She used to work at a bakery and maintained friendship with the baker. She bakes a particular cake that is one of my favorite foods of all time. German chocolate frosting (she actually roasted and diced the nuts, shaved the coconut, and made the frosting), chocolate cake, and fresh strawberry filling, with strawberries on top.
I made my girlfriend some chocolate covered strawberries (white and milk chocolate), and then we made dinner together (mussels, lobster tail, and scalloped potatoes). After that we watched two movies (The Switch and Hangover II). Long story short, I had a good Valentine's Day
you are so wrong on so many levels. That's pretty d*mn bold of you to think and say that about me; when you have no clue how far from the truth you really are. 
I like how we were all happy OT from this thread. Joe if you want to know the TRUE reason why, PM me. Otherwise don't ever make ridiculous assumptions like that about me again.
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Wrong about you on what? That you miss the whole point of it? That's the only assumption I made, and considering that I enjoy the holiday, you don't, and we both have different opinions of what the holiday is... then I would assume that you ARE missing the point. Otherwise, I'm missing the point and Valentine's Day isn't meant to be fun.
Even then, I don't know what's so bold about saying you're missing the point. No clue why you took my post so offensively.
And "the true reason why"... what? I'm completely not following you.
Even then, I don't know what's so bold about saying you're missing the point. No clue why you took my post so offensively.
And "the true reason why"... what? I'm completely not following you.
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No, as I stated before, I prefer affection all the time and if he does something EXTRA, it needs to be random. It means MUCH more if it's random than on a set day that everyone else is sharing.
There's more thought into it if he is like, "hmm..I really care about my gal. i'm going to do something extra fantastic for her today just b/c i want to for no good reason at all."
My logic holidays are a waste of time eh? Right. What logic is that again? You were already wrong about how I view it, and you're wrong again.
Origin:
From Feb. 13 to 15, the Romans celebrated the feast of Lupercalia. The men sacrificed a goat and a dog, then whipped women with the hides of the animals they had just slain.
The Roman romantics "were drunk. They were naked," says Noel Lenski, a historian at the University of Colorado at Boulder. Young women would actually line up for the men to hit them, Lenski says. They believed this would make them fertile.
The brutal fete included a matchmaking lottery, in which young men drew the names of women from a jar. The couple would then be, um, coupled up for the duration of the festival – or longer, if the match was right.
The ancient Romans may also be responsible for the name of our modern day of love. Emperor Claudius II executed two men — both named Valentine — on Feb. 14 of different years in the 3rd century A.D. Their martyrdom was honored by the Catholic Church with the celebration of St. Valentine's Day.
Later, Pope Gelasius I muddled things in the 5th century by combining St. Valentine's Day with Lupercalia to expel the pagan rituals. But the festival was more of a theatrical interpretation of what it had once been. Lenski adds, "It was a little more of a drunken revel, but the Christians put clothes back on it. That didn't stop it from being a day of fertility and love."
Around the same time, the Normans celebrated Galatin's Day. Galatin meant "lover of women." That was likely confused with St. Valentine's Day at some point, in part because they sound alike.
As the years went on, the holiday grew sweeter. Chaucer and Shakespeare romanticized it in their work, and it gained popularity throughout Britain and the rest of Europe. Handmade paper cards became the tokens-du-jour in the Middle Ages.
Eventually, the tradition made its way to the New World. The industrial revolution ushered in factory-made cards in the 19th century. And in 1913, Hallmark Cards of Kansas City, Mo., began mass producing valentines. February has not been the same since.
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Yes, doing random nice things is great and should be a part of any relationship.... but Valentine's Day isn't all about the man doting (AKA, doing something extra) on the woman (or other man). It's not about the man doing something extra. It's about the two people sharing a special day together.
Damn.. can't have any sort of conversation with you without you getting upset and taking it personally. Just trying to help you enjoy a holiday that many people DO enjoy. I'll remember never to disagree with you again.
I'm editing this post because I don't want the wrong overall tone to come out. I want to add in that I am sorry if I offended you.
Damn.. can't have any sort of conversation with you without you getting upset and taking it personally. Just trying to help you enjoy a holiday that many people DO enjoy. I'll remember never to disagree with you again.
I'm editing this post because I don't want the wrong overall tone to come out. I want to add in that I am sorry if I offended you.
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how the hell did i miss this thread until now.
also i;m single
i;m not a nice person though. expect there to be many mean jokes directed at random strangers in public. and gingers. they dont have souls ya know
also i;m single
i;m not a nice person though. expect there to be many mean jokes directed at random strangers in public. and gingers. they dont have souls ya knowFor All The Ladies.
