thats about it a little flexible on price. really am considering a 99-01 b20z crv with a 5 speed really love honda since there easy to work on and are reliable plus ive worked on more hondas than anything else so they are right up my alleyIs the safety rating a factor for your search? If you have priorities, make a list. This will help limit the possibilities.
For example, from what you've mentioned so far, here are your criteria:
1) $5000 or less
2) Accommodates three car seats
3) Good gas mileage
4) Good safety rating
Are there others?