The Relationship Thread

[mymmeryloss]

Ive noticed a pattern in people..

Everyone changes in some way every three years.

If you dont change together then things wont last..

Lots if people just get bored of each other.

 

[Osiris19]

I am back with my girlfriend. It kind of just happened. I wasn't expecting it to happen, but we're seeing how it goes. Taking it day by day I guess. We talked a lot about both of our issues and things and figured we'd give it another go. Things are changed though. We're taking our relationship at a different approach. We really didn't break up, or at least, she didn't want to didn't want us to be broken up, more of just a break. The kid she was hanging out with turned out to be a complete a*****e to her, didn't respect her, forced her to do things she didn't want to do, basically put on this face that he liked her yet treated her like s**t. I was only there to help her through it. I had the thought in my head that we weren't going to get back together. Say what you want, but I'm seeing where it goes.

 

[mymmeryloss]

So she came running back to u because u were there and u gladly took her back because u were lonely? Sound about right?

Dude ur gonna regret not living ur life and missing out on your high school and teen years.

U need to get out and meet people. Your being played. If shes gonna go hang out with some dude and come back to u then she knowd ur weak and will always be there no matter what she does or how she treats u. Do u think she would take u back if u were hanging with some other girl? Hell no she wouldnt...

Think about it. I know how upset u were. s**t we all have been there. But its part of growing up.

 

[Osiris19]

No its not like that at all. It doesn't really have anything to do the kid. It was all the stress from her family on her that took a toll on her, and she just wanted to get away from it for a little. Honestly, it doesn't bother me. I can go out if I want to. If it doesn't work, oh well, big deal life goes on. I'm going to college in the fall, so I'll probably meet someone there anyways. We've had fun the last few days and had really good nights.

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[EJackBauer8]

Now she's just gonna know that she has you around her finger, and she'll do it over and over until you stop it.

 

[mymmeryloss]

U said u had no friends and nobody wants to hang out. I would work on meeting people and get out there and have some fun...

 

[Osiris19]

Now she's just gonna know that she has you around her finger, and she'll do it over and over until you stop it.

That's where you're wrong. I'm not putting up with anything stupid. If she screws up, then that's it. I decided to give it another shot, so now there cards are in my hands.

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[mymmeryloss]

That's where you're wrong. I'm not putting up with anything stupid. If she screws up, then that's it. I decided to give it another shot, so now there cards are in my hands.

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Well i hope whatever happens works out best for u!

 

[Osiris19]

Thanks. Things are going good right now. Having a little party with her and a friend of mine.

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[EJackBauer8]

That's where you're wrong. I'm not putting up with anything stupid. If she screws up, then that's it. I decided to give it another shot, so now there cards are in my hands.

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They're you go that's the mentality.

 

[young_]

They're you go that's the mentality.

You just said "they are you go".

Lol

But yeah Osiris hope it all works out for the best. Don't take no s**t and be happy!


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[Tig.]

I am back with my girlfriend. It kind of just happened. I wasn't expecting it to happen, but we're seeing how it goes. Taking it day by day I guess. We talked a lot about both of our issues and things and figured we'd give it another go. Things are changed though. We're taking our relationship at a different approach. We really didn't break up, or at least, she didn't want to didn't want us to be broken up, more of just a break. The kid she was hanging out with turned out to be a complete a*****e to her, didn't respect her, forced her to do things she didn't want to do, basically put on this face that he liked her yet treated her like s**t. I was only there to help her through it. I had the thought in my head that we weren't going to get back together. Say what you want, but I'm seeing where it goes.

I knew you two would get together again. I've been in the same situation many times and now I've pretty much learned not to give a s**t because they always come back

 

[buzzbombtom]

every relationship has 2 break ups...

 

[mymmeryloss]

every relationship has 2 break ups...

We havent had a breakup yet...

 

[Osiris19]

I knew you two would get together again. I've been in the same situation many times and now I've pretty much learned not to give a s*** because they always come back

Eh, I partly blame her, myself, and the situation we were in. But that doesn't matter. We had a great night tonight. Now if my headache would go away, that woudl be nice.

 

[young_]

We havent had a breakup yet...

Same. Granted mine's only five years, still.


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[mymmeryloss]

Ive only been with mine 5 years

 

[young_]

Ah. Well I just know there are a lot of older people on the forums so I figured to someone that's been married for like 14 years, that five would seem insignificant. I guess it's just because I'm young. (Hah, young_) I've been with the same girl since I was fifteen and I'm almost twenty.


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[mymmeryloss]

s**t i f**ked lots of girls and lived my life. Had two decently long relationships and wish i didnt. Still get butterflies everytime i see my high school gf.

Shits weird. But i sometimes wish i was still single except my daughter is the coolest s**t in the world!!!

 

[young_]

I had a particularly rough childhood. Let's just say my sister was in the biggest meth bust in the county when I was in middle school, and I stayed with her. I think the rough situations I dealt with earlier on in life helped me mature faster than most other kids my age. I partied, I fooled around, but I find more comfort in stability. I feel like I'm married, and that's fine. I'm completely happy with where my relationship is at. Sure we have plenty of trials and tribulations ahead but we just have each other and we just have to look ahead. I figure later on in life you get to a point where you want to settle down with a woman that you have a true connection with and keeps you happy, and I have that. Maybe I don't have it figured out, but I can only follow my heart.


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