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TokyoSkies

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If she didn't work for me then she won't work for you. And I've always been right on that point.




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That's making a general statement that you don't have the authority to regulate. People are different. As others have said, let them do their thing. I've had friends do that. When I was younger, it would make me mad. Now, I just think "well hell, obviously they're good for each other. We sure as hell weren't".
 

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remember you dont own anyone, thus an ex is not property. the whole macho she was mine so she cant be yours is f**king so beyond dumb. are you so selfish that you dont want your friend to be happy?
No i just thought it was weird is all im way over this girl, just that when we were dating she would talk bad about this guy and now it came outa no where
 

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If she didn't work for me then she won't work for you. And I've always been right on that point.




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You are a very controlling person.

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That's making a general statement that you don't have the authority to regulate. People are different. As others have said, let them do their thing. I've had friends do that. When I was younger, it would make me mad. Now, I just think "well hell, obviously they're good for each other. We sure as hell weren't".
Lol honestly Idc. As long as I get in there first then I'm good. <- (Sarcasm)

If I really liked the girl I prefer a little waiting period before one of my said friends try to get with her. Buuuut I've never really had this problem before so I'm good




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You are a very controlling person.

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Me? Nahhh never.



I think I'm just more cut out to being single at this point in time anyway. Y'all are right, most girls are just too wild at my age.




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all i hear is a bunch of whiners and complainers. go do what tom said go out and bang some girls get some play. better that then sitting around on cc
 

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all i hear is a bunch of whiners and complainers. go do what tom said go out and bang some girls get some play. better that then sitting around on cc
:lol:

Not ALL of us are bitching. If I wanted to smash, I'd smash, I have no problem with that.
 

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Happy over here. Boyfriend and I are getting ourselves ready to find a place (which will be a LONG time from now. Just getting finances, cars, credit, furniture...etc together). He's still working on the volunteer firefighter deal. He's slowly getting there!
 

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Happy over here. Boyfriend and I are getting ourselves ready to find a place (which will be a LONG time from now. Just getting finances, cars, credit, furniture...etc together). He's still working on the volunteer firefighter deal. He's slowly getting there!
Good luck!
 

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Thanks. We'll be needing it.
 

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remember you dont own anyone, thus an ex is not property. the whole macho she was mine so she cant be yours is f**king so beyond dumb. are you so selfish that you dont want your friend to be happy?
My best friend is married to my long term ex. Loooong story...
 

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My best friend is married to my long term ex. Loooong story...
And I'm marrying my exs old best friend. People change and things happen.

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A chick that hung around my group of friends for years, was boning a friend of mine, all the while, he had a girl pregnant that he was with, that none of us knew about. She knew about her, though. Dude's girl had the kid, he bailed out like a d**k. Girl he was cheating with (let's call her Nuts and Bolts. That's her nickname, due to her absolutely atrocious grill of a mouth.. looked like she chewed on nuts and bolts) leaves him for some unforeseen reason. Starts trying to holler at me. I tell her to f**k off. Starts hollering at my best friend. He tells her she's a slut and a homewrecker. I LOL. She casually hangs around us. Her best friend ends up dating the dude with the kid, not knowing any of his past (including his fling with Nuts and Bolts). They date for 6 months, she lives with him, figures out that he's a douche, and a dead-beat dad. She leaves him, and Nuts and Bolts hops back on that band-wagon, and is now dating dude again.

Also, for something that happened to me directly: was "seeing" this really cute (but far too young... she was 19) blonde girl. We weren't necessarily dating, but we were seeing each other, she was hanging out all the time, I sent her flowers, did the sweet nice guy thing. All seemed well, and I actually dug her a lot, age differences aside.
My band members and I (3/5 of us) were living in a house at this time. One day, out of the blue, the singer (notorious douche-nozzle. I hadn't learned this yet, though) comes up to me and says "hey.. just thought I'd tell you, that your chick and I have been talking. We like each other a lot, and we want to have a relationship. Sorry dude. Hope it doesn't effect our friendship/band". Needless to say, a few weeks later (and for other reasons) I beat the s**t out of him in the rocks in front of our house, in front of 40+ people at a party we were having lol.

Moral: People will do what they do. It's up to you to pick and choose how you will react to it. Now, none of this stuff would be worth my time.
 

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Also, for something that happened to me directly: was "seeing" this really cute (but far too young_... she was 19) blonde girl. We weren't necessarily dating, but we were seeing each other, she was hanging out all the time, I sent her flowers, did the sweet nice guy thing.
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A chick that hung around my group of friends for years, was boning a friend of mine, all the while, he had a girl pregnant that he was with, that none of us knew about. She knew about her, though. Dude's girl had the kid, he bailed out like a d**k. Girl he was cheating with (let's call her Nuts and Bolts. That's her nickname, due to her absolutely atrocious grill of a mouth.. looked like she chewed on nuts and bolts) leaves him for some unforeseen reason. Starts trying to holler at me. I tell her to f*** off. Starts hollering at my best friend. He tells her she's a slut and a homewrecker. I LOL. She casually hangs around us. Her best friend ends up dating the dude with the kid, not knowing any of his past (including his fling with Nuts and Bolts). They date for 6 months, she lives with him, figures out that he's a douche, and a dead-beat dad. She leaves him, and Nuts and Bolts hops back on that band-wagon, and is now dating dude again.

Also, for something that happened to me directly: was "seeing" this really cute (but far too young... she was 19) blonde girl. We weren't necessarily dating, but we were seeing each other, she was hanging out all the time, I sent her flowers, did the sweet nice guy thing. All seemed well, and I actually dug her a lot, age differences aside.
My band members and I (3/5 of us) were living in a house at this time. One day, out of the blue, the singer (notorious douche-nozzle. I hadn't learned this yet, though) comes up to me and says "hey.. just thought I'd tell you, that your chick and I have been talking. We like each other a lot, and we want to have a relationship. Sorry dude. Hope it doesn't effect our friendship/band". Needless to say, a few weeks later (and for other reasons) I beat the s*** out of him in the rocks in front of our house, in front of 40+ people at a party we were having lol.

Moral: People will do what they do. It's up to you to pick and choose how you will react to it. Now, none of this stuff would be worth my time.
i dont really understand the story... she sounds like a groupie to me.... let me guess you play the bass in the band?
 


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