how to be a man: tips you need

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I don't know what you're talking about, I think my thongs are comfy :what:
the point is... at first i am sure you were like wtf is this thing..there is no way i will wear this. but now you like it. same goes for boxer briefs. i think boxers are f***ing uncomfortable the way they ride up lol

You should start a blog, Tom. My philosophies and yours differ radically, but I think what you're giving in here is what a lot of people are looking for. I think it's helpful to a lot of people who are looking to step up their dress, and don't know where to go begin. You'd reach a large audience and could make a decent income if you market it properly.
ive been kicking around the idea. no clue how to market it, nor do i have any idea how to make money at it. i would need to get more people following this thread to do anything like that.

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the point is... at first i am sure you were like wtf is this thing..there is no way i will wear this. but now you like it. same goes for boxer briefs. i think boxers are f***ing uncomfortable the way they ride up lol
My boyfriend wears boxers (has a couple pairs of boxer briefs and he says he likes them) and that needed to change. So I bought him a couple pairs of plan black boxer briefs and he loves them.
 

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I made the transition to boxer briefs like a year ago. Glad I switched. Much better.
 


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Like what? Flat bill or the way it's on my head?
Both. Flat bills look terrible and wearing it up like it is on your head looks...well, I already said it and so did a couple others.

Not something I see on yours but some thing I see constantly...no one cares what brand it is or what the price was. Take the stickers off people.

Also wearing it backwards is dumb and defeats the purpose. I can't really say much as that is how I used to wear mine, but I look back at old photos I see how retarded I looked. Then again I used to wear a wallet chain and had pants that were size 50 when I had a 34 waist (used to fold them over, THEN put the belt on, shirts were huge and were down to my knees). Was very popular around this area and was also back in the late 80's and early 90's when grunge was still considered cool as well as skater attire.
 

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ive been kicking around the idea. no clue how to market it, nor do i have any idea how to make money at it. i would need to get more people following this thread to do anything like that.
Can't help you with marketing. That would take some research to figure out the best strategy. Money would come from ads. Something like Google AdSense. You wouldn't make a killing off the blog, but a little bit of passive income never hurt anyone, especially for something you're willing to do for free. Anyway, just something to think about.
 

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I realize im married and s**t and i dont really need to worry about this stuff other than to keep the wife around and happy.

I dont dress like you guys. I dont act like you guys. My profession allows for a bit of a "trashy" side. I do well for myself and my family and its funny to say when i see guys dressed and acting like you guys are trying to be all i can do is laugh.

I make more than most of these fags that want to be something that they arent and i can be myself.

Theres a goop rap song out right now(i dont normally listen to rap) that explains things pretty damn good. Its called levels. Not sure who its by.

But my advice is dont try to be something u will never be or you will be lost forever. Sometimes you just gotta accept s**t and get on with your life.

Toms advice is great and all, but its not gonna work for half of you. Hes just way cooler and better at this stuff than any of you.

I did great with the ladies, but with a complete different type of "lady" than tom is after. s**t, ive ran through tons of girls in my day and sure it was fun but it doesnt make u happy. Get a hobby. Live your life and be yourself!
 

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I realize im married and s*** and i dont really need to worry about this stuff other than to keep the wife around and happy.

I dont dress like you guys. I dont act like you guys. My profession allows for a bit of a "trashy" side. I do well for myself and my family and its funny to say when i see guys dressed and acting like you guys are trying to be all i can do is laugh.

I make more than most of these fags that want to be something that they arent and i can be myself.

Theres a goop rap song out right now(i dont normally listen to rap) that explains things pretty damn good. Its called levels. Not sure who its by.

But my advice is dont try to be something u will never be or you will be lost forever. Sometimes you just gotta accept s*** and get on with your life.

Toms advice is great and all, but its not gonna work for half of you. Hes just way cooler and better at this stuff than any of you.

I did great with the ladies, but with a complete different type of "lady" than tom is after. s***, ive ran through tons of girls in my day and sure it was fun but it doesnt make u happy. Get a hobby. Live your life and be yourself!
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I agree with the majority of Tom's advice too, but if you think it's fruity to wear colored socks DON'T DO IT.
It's nice to add some variety to what you wear, but your style has to be your own. Learn how to dress for the occasion and you'll be set for any situation.
 

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I realize im married and s*** and i dont really need to worry about this stuff other than to keep the wife around and happy.

I dont dress like you guys. I dont act like you guys. My profession allows for a bit of a "trashy" side. I do well for myself and my family and its funny to say when i see guys dressed and acting like you guys are trying to be all i can do is laugh.

I make more than most of these fags that want to be something that they arent and i can be myself.

Theres a goop rap song out right now(i dont normally listen to rap) that explains things pretty damn good. Its called levels. Not sure who its by.

But my advice is dont try to be something u will never be or you will be lost forever. Sometimes you just gotta accept s*** and get on with your life.

Toms advice is great and all, but its not gonna work for half of you. Hes just way cooler and better at this stuff than any of you.

I did great with the ladies, but with a complete different type of "lady" than tom is after. s***, ive ran through tons of girls in my day and sure it was fun but it doesnt make u happy. Get a hobby. Live your life and be yourself!
This tends to align more, though not completely, with my philosophy on things. On my days off, you'll usually see me in some cargo shorts and a t-shirt with white socks, skate shoes, and long hair down. My t-shirts have subject matter ranging from Ninja Turtles to video game tournaments to cars. I would never be caught in a pair of plaid shorts. I've been in a successful relationship for the past 6 years. I think personality is infinitely more important than what you wear. Assholes DO get all the ladies, but they don't keep them / end up in happy relationships. Be yourself, but be a good person. However, the most important thing, and I think this is where Tom REALLY helps, is to be confident. If you are not confident in yourself, nobody will be confident in you - not in your abilities, not in your dress, not in your potential to be a provider. I've seen the geekiest of geeks end up with model-quality girls due simply to their good nature and self-confidence. Tom's way isn't the only way, but it is one way. Bottom line, be the best version of yourself you can be, but be you. *steps off soapbox*

All that said, let's try not to derail the thread. This is a great thread that is helpful for a lot of people. There's a lot of sound advice here and I'd hate to see it go off track. If you want to respond to me, I ask that you do it in PMs.
 

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I realize im married and s*** and i dont really need to worry about this stuff other than to keep the wife around and happy.

I dont dress like you guys. I dont act like you guys. My profession allows for a bit of a "trashy" side. I do well for myself and my family and its funny to say when i see guys dressed and acting like you guys are trying to be all i can do is laugh.

I make more than most of these fags that want to be something that they arent and i can be myself.

Theres a goop rap song out right now(i dont normally listen to rap) that explains things pretty damn good. Its called levels. Not sure who its by.

But my advice is dont try to be something u will never be or you will be lost forever. Sometimes you just gotta accept s*** and get on with your life.

Toms advice is great and all, but its not gonna work for half of you. Hes just way cooler and better at this stuff than any of you.

I did great with the ladies, but with a complete different type of "lady" than tom is after. s***, ive ran through tons of girls in my day and sure it was fun but it doesnt make u happy. Get a hobby. Live your life and be yourself!
Many who post in this thread won't agree, but this^ really needed to be said here. If everyone were to follow Tom's advice, we'd have a world filled with Tom clones. Would that be good?
 

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I agree 100% with what Chris said. I'm the same way, ive never been one to follow trends or dress the same as everyone else. Just like to be myself. Tom does have some good advice for those seeking it though!


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Many who post in this thread won't agree, but this^ really needed to be said here. If everyone were to follow Tom's advice, we'd have a world filled with Tom clones. Would that be good?
No, everyone should be themselves. I don't judge a book by it's cover and I have been extremely surprised by those who looked one way, but were cool as hell. While mmeryloss said it well, it wont change the minds of those already seeking "wisdom". To each there own I guess, or to each whatever everyone else is doing in this case.
 

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I think we should cover.. First dates. Sounds like a fun topic. Where to take a girl? What to wear? Cologne or no? Etc.
 

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I think we should cover.. First dates. Sounds like a fun topic. Where to take a girl? What to wear? Cologne or no? Etc.
If they don't smash after the 1st date then they're no good. Lol JK




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Colored socks??? Really? Since when did this become heterosexual? We have a gay guy here at work and he LOVES to wear colored socks. So do the women. There is no way in hell you would catch me in colored socks. I also wouldn't go without socks. Walking around in shoes with no socks just looks ridiculous. About as bad as those guys that wear socks with sandals.
 

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By colored socks, do you mean black socks too? Because I wear plain black athletic socks and I don't think they're gay.
 

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I think we should cover.. First dates. Sounds like a fun topic. Where to take a girl? What to wear? Cologne or no? Etc.
sure thing. i will go over being a man vs taking a pony to the pasture... give me a few days to write it up
 


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