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TokyoSkies

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I'm trying my absolute best to give him space, and once I go do something for myself (i.e. the gym last night) I actually feel really good. But something in the back of my mind is scared that he's doing something... else... that I don't necessarily like. And I honestly don't know where that comes from. He's NEVER done anything even REMOTELY sketchy. That's my own insecurities, which is very unfortunate. I don't tell him this every time. I just eat it. Because generally he's just playing video games or something.

No, I'm not hanging out with his friends :lol: I have my own.

I just really want to feel like we have that "spark" again. I feel like it's lost. And I don't want to be the one to bring it up all the time. I want him to WANT to do something nice together. He used to do that all the time. But I am trying my absolute best to just be patient. He still tells me that the next step after this is to move in with me, so I guess that's good.

Again guys, thank you for letting me dump this on you. I'm just in a hard place and I don't really know where to go about it. I need to talk to people that aren't biased (I dunno, maybe you guys are).

Nope. I'm a Libra btw. :lol:
Keep your gut feelings in mind. Mine are, literally, never wrong. Ever. It's weird. If you feel like some s*** ain't right, keep your cool, but stay aware. If he's done nothing wrong, you don't want to over-react and sabotage your relationship.
The "spark" thing happened to me around the 2 year mark with my ex. We became this "blah" couple that didn't do anything. Turned out I needed some personal life changes (car, job, living situation). When all of that cleared up, it was pretty amazing how our relationship turned around. The fact that he's moving in with his boys leads me to believe he's taking proactive steps to overhaul his personal life. Don't take it offensively unless he's s***housed every day with a bunch of broads over there.

Like we have anything better to do in this thread? :lol:

No but really, don't feel bad.

Does he know that you feel like he's not putting in enough effort into the relationship?

Me personally, I've been with the same girl since I was 15. I've lived with her since I was 16. I have zero interest in living with any of my guy friends for any amount of time. I guess these are just personal feelings and his are different, but I personally can't see or understand the appeal in it.

If the end game in life is to settle down with a woman that you love and can get along with well enough to stay happy, and learn from each other.. Then why risk losing that to "chill with the guys"?

I'm on your side boo boo! :cool:
You, sir, are wise beyond your years. I really, REALLY enjoyed my manwhoring phase, but as I'm almost 30, I just want to settle down with a girl (the one I'm with is a definite candidate, although she's still a bit young and not ready for that yet), get my own house, renovate it, and enjoy it. Running through hoodrats was fun, but I'm way beyond that now. I feel ya!

I noticed on the intro that his special was directed by Rob Zombie. The f*** is that about?
Because ROB ZOMBIE MOFUGGA. Good question though. That's odd.

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"If we were two squirrels, would you let me bust a nut in your hole?"

My favorite: "I'm gonna treat you like my big toe and bang you on every piece of furniture in my house at 2am"
 

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Got approved for my loan and it should be posted soon to my account. I'm ready for year two of college.
 

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Good stuff. Year two of college. Man, I wish I could go back to year two of college. That was the best year. Nothing was too terribly difficult. Parties every weekend. That was a good time (/OldGuyReminiscing)
 

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I got a good line for my next tinder match. I'll post results
It better not be the one I heard yesterday.... something that ended with beating up the pussayy :lol:


Soo finally got the total damage to the old house where I lived with the ex. Security deposit was $1470, and the total costs of repairs is.... $1470.77. She charges us $150 for the range drip pans. They only cost $13 at Walmart. Sent her an email asking for all receipts. She's trying to f**k us over. She threatened my ex stating if we took her to court that we would be liable for all her fees. In the lease, we would be, if it were tenant court. However we are no longer tenants, so it would be in small claims court. My buddy works in IT for a housing / real estate company, and just got in touch with the lawyer at works there. Looks like game on. :cool: :???:
 

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Soo finally got the total damage to the old house where I lived with the ex. Security deposit was $1470, and the total costs of repairs is.... $1470.77. She charges us $150 for the range drip pans. They only cost $13 at Walmart. Sent her an email asking for all receipts. She's trying to f*** us over. She threatened my ex stating if we took her to court that we would be liable for all her fees. In the lease, we would be, if it were tenant court. However we are no longer tenants, so it would be in small claims court. My buddy works in IT for a housing / real estate company, and just got in touch with the lawyer at works there. Looks like game on. :cool: :???:
How fun. I was forced out of an apartment in January because management kept our heat off (boiler system, they controlled temp). We had many many records of being under 50 in the place, as low as 42 in the evenings and we stopped paying rent, sent them the letter, set up an escrow account, the whole deal. They turned the heat up to 85 the next day and had an inspector come in, said it was fine, they sent us a letter later saying they were taking us to court. Had a young piss n vinegar lawyer who fights these battles step in, also had about 50 signatures from other tenants, some with babies, claiming the same thing. Lawyer settled it, gave them the finger, never heard from that place again :lol:

Get everything you need together and then punch them in the face with it!!!
 

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best thing ever, gotta save up to s*** on shift, lol
New thread coming, "While I s*** At Work"

Hell, if I feel it brewing while I'm getting ready for work, I'll get there early as hell and punch in, then go get comfy on the shitter. :what:
 

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New thread coming, "While I s*** At Work"

Hell, if I feel it brewing while I'm getting ready for work, I'll get there early as hell and punch in, then go get comfy on the s***ter. :what:
and then update your resume with: Excellent Planning and Time Management Skills
 

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New thread coming, "While I s*** At Work"

Hell, if I feel it brewing while I'm getting ready for work, I'll get there early as hell and punch in, then go get comfy on the s***ter. :what:
:lol:

Shitting on the job is almost a requirement if you work in an office. It's like a right of passage. Get paid to dump crew!
 


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