The Relationship Thread

[nd4sped]

This is why I dont have commited relationships and no desire to ever get married again. Did it, done that, not doing it again. So all you married guys and soon to be married guys can live your bachelor life through me.

 

[crash!]

^^^ that made me

Definitely had too many beers last night and called my man and ranted on him. Oops...

 

[buzzbombtom]

lex, comon now... did anal at least come up? he needs to know that its his responsibility to ask daily.

 

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[96 DX Hatch]

Went in to the office a few times last week.
Had the new receptionist strike up a couple convos and pretty sure she threw some signs/signals my way.
Came in today and learned she's been transferred downtown, no bueno.
So...I might have made a trip out of it and went to the building downtown and said hi.
Seemed happy to see me. So I made up for the invite I blew/missed Friday and gave her my card for my number. Not sure if that was as smooth as I could have done it, but can't change it now.

Now the waiting game begins.

And I almost wonder if I messed up today when I went because it seemed like she wanted me to wait for her (4:40pm) but I didn't want to take up much of her time and probably seemed rushed in myself with my fake cover story.

Oh yeah, him and I are dating now. But he never makes time for me. So I'm irritated about that. Oh well

I'm assuming he's playing 'hard to get' to keep you interested, IDK.

Oh, and Matt and I became friends. We met up and talked, and things are really complicated but there's nothing we can do about it right now.

Funny you should mention that. Either Tuesday or Wednesday I called my ex that I haven't heard from in a year and we ended up having a couple 85+min convos. Had planned to meet up before she goes to Africa on the 20th, which sucks because I'll be in Key West the next day, but as of this mornings email, may not happen now.

Well since this is the relationship thread, girl I've been talking to for months kind of has me interested. We talk here and there, sometimes a few times a week. Haven't actually gotten a chance to hang out with her.

Keep her as a friend for now, try to talk her into some of the more physical stuff.

If she can do it, maybe continue the pursuit of a relationship.
If she can't, keep it as a friends deal and find a girl you can lock down while still being able to fully enjoy yourself when you want to

 

[crash!]

Went in to the office a few times last week.
Had the new receptionist strike up a couple convos and pretty sure she threw some signs/signals my way.
Came in today and learned she's been transferred downtown, no bueno.
So...I might have made a trip out of it and went to the building downtown and said hi.
Seemed happy to see me. So I made up for the invite I blew/missed Friday and gave her my card for my number. Not sure if that was as smooth as I could have done it, but can't change it now.

Now the waiting game begins.

And I almost wonder if I messed up today when I went because it seemed like she wanted me to wait for her (4:40pm) but I didn't want to take up much of her time and probably seemed rushed in myself with my fake cover story.
I'm assuming he's playing 'hard to get' to keep you interested, IDK.

Funny you should mention that. Either Tuesday or Wednesday I called my ex that I haven't heard from in a year and we ended up having a couple 85+min convos. Had planned to meet up before she goes to Africa on the 20th, which sucks because I'll be in Key West the next day, but as of this mornings email, may not happen now.

Keep her as a friend for now, try to talk her into some of the more physical stuff.

If she can do it, maybe continue the pursuit of a relationship.
If she can't, keep it as a friends deal and find a girl you can lock down while still being able to fully enjoy yourself when you want to

He's not, he's definitely not one for games. He's just SUPER serious about his cycling. He rides every day, and they're not little rides either.
His room-mates/friends saw me at a local bar and all were asking me where he was because they haven't seen him. I just shrugged and said I haven't even talked to him all day let alone see him. They were kind of concerned about that, which I think made me insecure about it.

That's good that you guys are talking though. Just take it slow and don't push for anything. I pushed for some answers out of Matt and what he said really surprised me and caught me off guard. But there's nothing we can do about it. Oh well.

 

[buzzbombtom]

Went in to the office a few times last week.
Had the new receptionist strike up a couple convos and pretty sure she threw some signs/signals my way.
Came in today and learned she's been transferred downtown, no bueno.
So...I might have made a trip out of it and went to the building downtown and said hi.
Seemed happy to see me. So I made up for the invite I blew/missed Friday and gave her my card for my number. Not sure if that was as smooth as I could have done it, but can't change it now.

Now the waiting game begins.

And I almost wonder if I messed up today when I went because it seemed like she wanted me to wait for her (4:40pm) but I didn't want to take up much of her time and probably seemed rushed in myself with my fake cover story.
I'm assuming he's playing 'hard to get' to keep you interested, IDK.

Funny you should mention that. Either Tuesday or Wednesday I called my ex that I haven't heard from in a year and we ended up having a couple 85+min convos. Had planned to meet up before she goes to Africa on the 20th, which sucks because I'll be in Key West the next day, but as of this mornings email, may not happen now.

Keep her as a friend for now, try to talk her into some of the more physical stuff.

If she can do it, maybe continue the pursuit of a relationship.
If she can't, keep it as a friends deal and find a girl you can lock down while still being able to fully enjoy yourself when you want to

NEVER give your number out!!! Mistake #1 mistake #2 was going out of your way to go see a receptionist at another branch. Mistake #3 don't give your card out, its lame...

 

[96 DX Hatch]

That's good that you guys are talking though. Just take it slow and don't push for anything. I pushed for some answers out of Matt and what he said really surprised me and caught me off guard. But there's nothing we can do about it. Oh well.

Just talking as friends, she's got a boyfriend and all that jazz that she'll be moving to San Fran with after she gets back from 3 months in Africa + 1 month in London. Just more of catching up and being civil unlike our relationship was

NEVER give your number out!!! Mistake #1 mistake #2 was going out of your way to go see a receptionist at another branch. Mistake #3 don't give your card out, its lame...

#1 - Missed the opportunity to get hers Friday, and she seemed rushed so had to speed up any type of convo

#2 - Yeah. She saw my bag from when I got lunch from the building next to hers, but I just maybe lied when I said I was about to meet a friend a couple buildings over so it didn't seem so random/weird lol

#3 - Yeah I figured as much. Just seemed quicker & easier at the time, like I said, tried making up for a blown opening Friday. We'll see if anything happens around the weekend, but I honestly don't have my hopes up

 

[ej_swag]

Well since this is the relationship thread, girl I've been talking to for months kind of has me interested. We talk here and there, sometimes a few times a week. Haven't actually gotten a chance to hang out with her. Being away at school and seeing my family when I come home puts that in the way.

Anyways, couple things in leery about but arent necessarily deal breaker. She's probably above average religious. She's told me she's a virgin and says she will save herself for the right guy (not necessarily marriage though).

She also has a ton of health problems. In and out of the hospital a few times a month for her back and weak joints and stuff like that. I want a girl I can actually go out with. I really like going to places like gorges and mountains, something physical to climb sort of. I feel we wouldn't be able to do a lot of that together.

She's pretty down to earth, cute, a few years younger than me (she's 18, I'm 21), she wants to go to college but with her health problems and her single mother she's been putting it off. She told me when we first started talking for awhile she liked me, but dumbass me was saying some stupid s**t about my ex (which I haven't been with since 2013) and she kind of backed off).

Not sure whether I wanna just stay friends or try and pursue this further. I like her because she's cool to talk to and isn't a stupid whore like my previous girlfriends. She also has a good head on her shoulders and we have a little bit in common. Not to mention she was helping me through my fathers passing.

It's sucks to see a rough situation like this but you just have to look past it. Liking someone and being with them are two separate things and if you can't be on the same page and pursue similar interests (regardless of why) just causes one of you to give up something that defines you. You just have to move on.

 

[mymmeryloss]

NEVER give your number out!!! Mistake #1 mistake #2 was going out of your way to go see a receptionist at another branch. Mistake #3 don't give your card out, its lame...

I was thinking the same thing.

 

[mymmeryloss]

Just talking as friends, she's got a boyfriend and all that jazz that she'll be moving to San Fran with after she gets back from 3 months in Africa + 1 month in London. Just more of catching up and being civil unlike our relationship was
#1 - Missed the opportunity to get hers Friday, and she seemed rushed so had to speed up any type of convo

#2 - Yeah. She saw my bag from when I got lunch from the building next to hers, but I just maybe lied when I said I was about to meet a friend a couple buildings over so it didn't seem so random/weird lol

#3 - Yeah I figured as much. Just seemed quicker & easier at the time, like I said, tried making up for a blown opening Friday. We'll see if anything happens around the weekend, but I honestly don't have my hopes up

Always good to build a relationship off of lies right off the bat haha

 

[crash!]

Boyfriend dumped me tonight. Lol.

Motorcycle rides, wine and Scarface it is!


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[young_]

Boyfriend dumped me tonight. Lol.

Motorcycle rides, wine and Scarface it is!


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sorry to hear that.

I would like to point out though that you haven't tried dating through club civic yet so you don't know how that would go.

Chris could use a second wife, I'm sure I could convince my wife to be to share.

Hahaha

Nah but really, f**k em! I don't get how you keep ending up with these douchebags.

 

[Osiris19]

sorry to hear that.

I would like to point out though that you haven't tried dating through club civic yet so you don't know how that would go.

Chris could use a second wife, I'm sure I could convince my wife to be to share.

Hahaha

Nah but really, f**k em! I don't get how you keep ending up with these douchebags.

Lmfao I've been out of the game quite some time. Haha jk. .

Sorry to hear about that, Alex. Wines good though!

 

[nd4sped]

Preparing to go partying all next week in New Orleans as well as a few Poker Tournaments at Harrahs Casino!!!!
This was winnings from a $100 buy-in on Wednesday at $2-$2NL hold'em table.

My last hand netted me almost half this rack, pocket rockets ( A/A) with a flop of 3-A-J giving me trip-Aces. Turn and river didn't help the other guy so I decided to cash out and call it a night as I had other priorities.

 

[XpL0d3r]

NEVER give your number out!!! Mistake #1 mistake #2 was going out of your way to go see a receptionist at another branch. Mistake #3 don't give your card out, its lame...

#2 is a good idea IMO. You're not going to see her again otherwise, so why not give it a try. Watch the latest episode of Suits and you'll understand why it's a good idea. (Yes, I know it's just TV)

Prepaying to go partying all next week in New Orleans as well as a few Poker Tournaments at Harrahs Casino!!!!

This isn't the What are you doing Today thread lol, but good luck! Have yourself a foursome with some kings

 

[nd4sped]

This isn't the What are you doing Today thread lol, but good luck! Have yourself a foursome with some kings

But it is what I am doing today, I am PREPARING for next week

 

[mymmeryloss]

Boyfriend dumped me tonight. Lol.

Motorcycle rides, wine and Scarface it is!


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Doesnt sound like it was much of a relationship anyway.

 

[mymmeryloss]

But it is what I am doing today, I am PREPARING for next week

This is the relationship thread

 

[XpL0d3r]

But it is what I am doing today, I am PREPARING for next week

Exactly why this isn't the right thread for it, unless you have a relationship with those kings already

Doesnt sound like it was much of a relationship anyway.

I was thinking this same thing. It already sounded like he wasn't making the time.