So my ex-gf decided to send me a message on FB after about 2-3 months of not talking because she ditched me when I went to go visit her. She asks me if I would be willing to come out there and see her and she promised she won't ditch me this time. I'm thinking YAY, a f**k and forget. After a few days of chatting on FB about bills and money. She says she has bills too, including a kid on the way. I'm like WTF! She tells me that she wants to get back together. I ask who's the dad, and she tells me that it's her ex-bf (that I can't stand)that she always hung out with when we we're together at her house because her mom hates me but loves him. So know, I can't even think about f**king her. I mean, if it was mine, then it's no problem. But it's his and he's a sleezeball. What's funny is the fact that he wants nothing to do with her now. I'm thinking she wants me to help her raise this kid when it's born. That's not happening. Anyways, I just thought I'd vent because I can't get my head off the subject.
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Dude, imma be bluntly honest, ditch her bro, the best thing you can do. feeling's cloud judgments in a crazy way. you have no reason to go back. if anything it's more of a sign not to go back.
she has bills and she's prego.. she want's someone to be her b***h basically and she's using you cause you still have feelings. stay away bro, stay away.
she has bills and she's prego.. she want's someone to be her b***h basically and she's using you cause you still have feelings. stay away bro, stay away.
I know it is to have an ex you care for soooo much that you would do anything for, but you have to realize what is good for YOU!!!Mr. Jollypants
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f**k her, cum in her, put clothes on, and walk out casually like nothing happened.
I'm sure the baby isn't mine, we haven't f**ked in over 7 months. Plus condom and birth control. I don't have feelings for her personally. I just want sex and she was always willing to give it since I own her virginity. She was always nice and good
. But I'm a person that won't take raise a child that ain't mine.
. But I'm a person that won't take raise a child that ain't mine.
dude, you just made my day. I had a huge mental image right then.I know when I'm getting used, trust me and my spidey-sense is tingling. LOL.
of what?
if it's an unplanned pregnancy, then i feel really bad for her. Unfortunately your relationship ended 3 months ago.
you need to tell her straight up right now " im sorry, i can't help you raise a child, im still a child myself"
i mean, that's IF those are her intentions, which i don't eve know if they are or not.
if you guys are friends that's cool, i would just leave it at that.
what if she tells you " i think this baby is yours?"
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You honestly sound no better than her saying that.I'm sure the baby isn't mine, we haven't f**ked in over 7 months. Plus condom and birth control. I don't have feelings for her personally. I just want sex and she was always willing to give it since I own her virginity. She was always nice and good
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i need pics of say ex-girlfriend before i give you some advices man
@Sky, I know, but I haven't had any since then so yea, i want to.
@Hecz, Im not a child lol. I feel bad for her too, but Im not gona help her raise it. That's something the father should do.
@Hecz, Im not a child lol. I feel bad for her too, but Im not gona help her raise it. That's something the father should do.
@Jay, let's just say it was fun while it lasted but I dont want to get back with her. I'm not gona post pix because I still have enough respect for her to not put her pix on the internet.
That's not an excuse! You have 2 perfectly good hands... LMAO!!!