I don't wait for my car anymore, generally I do not beat on my car right up to the point of me parking. Normal driving with good airflow through the bay will drive the temps down pretty quick. Granted I am only refering to water and oil cooled turbo cars. Turbo destruction happens at both ends, when shutting down and startup. Having a way to prime your oil lines just prior to startup is the best way to prevent damage IMO.
Remember that turbine design and manifold design play a huge part is how fast heat dissipates. Larger a/r housing with good flow will pull heat out faster. The type of metal used can make a difference too.
I forgot what I was talking about. I guess my point would be is each setup is different, so how long you cool down shouldn't be a general thing. If it takes my car 10 seconds to get down to normal temps when I stop, then thats how long I will wait.