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if i could pay him back i would....but i just do not seeing me having an extra 5k down the road....
he did say when he dies all the money is going to go to his kids and he wants to help me out right now that its his. its his money right now and he does what he wants with it. i do think the kids will be a little upset about him giving me this money but this is just a small taste of what he has i understand it is a good size amount of money but its nothing to cause legal action towards i dont think but i mean really what can they do? they cant tell me to give it back to them when he dies they cant have a good solid arguement on why i should give it back....i understand he does have a slight memory problem but not like where am i or anything like that he is in a good state of mind.
and my parents are saying for him to write a letter stating that he gave me the money and i didnt force it on him to give it to me
i believe i will do that...just in case something does happen
maybe i should just give him back the check.......
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i kinda feel bad but i did tell him no.......i did say i didnt want it.....but he insisted........
i mean if i didnt say no at the first place i would understand i would have a feeling to give it back.........