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I was listening to NPR the other day and heard that the military is taking a harder stand on tattoos of certain nature and body location. What's the skinny on this?
all it took for a soldier to have a tattoo that said f**k you/off on his neck and the highest enlisted soldier to see it. his whole take is that we are a professional organization. if you are already in then it shouldn't effect us. if you are a new recruit and have tattoos below the knee or elbow they will not let you serve unless you have it removed. the changes have not come yet but its rumored to come within the next 30-60 days. there are other changes coming besides the tattoo

http://www.ncosupport.com/military-news/army-regulation-670-1-update.html


" Under the new policy, new recruits will not be allowed to have tattoos that show below the elbows and knees or above the neckline, Chandler told troops. Current soldiers may be grandfathered in, but all soldiers will still be barred from having any tattoos that are racist, sexist or extremist."
 

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There's more behind military jobs than just what is available and your test scores. For a recruiter, they want them to fill the jobs that are lacking in manpower, but you can actually choose your job based off of your test scores. For instance, if you test really well, they will show you the best jobs available that need to be filled but you can still choose another job. They will not tell you that though and they will try to push you into what they need. The downside to a great score and choosing a job they dont really need people in badly is, you may end up having to wait quite awhile to get in with that job.

There's a bunch of info that is never told to you regarding choices all throughout a military career. They try to shape it to their liking, which is understandable, but don't let that control you.

Being a military brat, air force vet, and having every other branch of military, police, and firemen in my family makes me non biased on any route and I couldnt recommend one over the other. There's soo many ups and downs to them all.

I liked my military time because I knew more than most who join so I wasn't manipulated, so to speak, as some others. I choose a career that I liked, that I knew where I could be possibly stationed, and made use of as many resources as possible....and still found out I had a ton of other options available after I got out lol. Hidden info sucks but it's all out there if you dig deep. Don't let yourself fall for bonuses either. Usually a major bonus means you're about to be in some bullshit.

If you play your cards smart, you could be like my dad, 20 years and retired, never had to leave America because his job was with the space and missle command in the air force, the worse thing was one base in america is in whack ass south dakota. We spent most of our lives in central california, mintues away from surf beach lol. It can be cake, if you're smart
 


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I appreciate your input, thanks for responding. I know you said you can't really recommend one over the other, but being that you have family in law enforcement as well as military, is there a very distinguishable difference in discipline and character between the two? I don't want to be the cop that wishes he was in the military, but if proper training with law enforcement can bring out the same traits in people as the military can then that would be great.

I'm gonna go ahead and assume there's no replacement for military training though.
 

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my girlfriend became my wife. don't take this the wrong way but if she is for you she will be there if not you can always find another
This has been stuck in my head lately. Should I feel guilty about putting her through that?
 


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This has been stuck in my head lately. Should I feel guilty about putting her through that?
Noo. I had a buddy I deployed with his wife hated him being in the military. Me and my other roommate supported him while we were overseas.he came home with a paycheck because she spent all the money he made out of hatred for him being overseas with us. Bye still is with his wife and she does not allow him to have contact with people from the unit. f**k a female who doesn't appreciate their spouse or bf being in the military.
 

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This has been stuck in my head lately. Should I feel guilty about putting her through that?
if you guys have a strong relationship and she is willing to wait for you to finish all your training than she is the one. military life is not for everyone I want to get out several times but my wife kept going and now I am close to retirement. i cannot thank her enough for being there and being my rock and support. Hopefully everything works out for you
 

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Here's what happened to me:

~21years old, no life plans what so ever.
~Joined military after testing high enough on ASVAB to qualify for "open electronics" in Air Force. (Score was high 80's i think?) Signed up for 6 years (vs 4) because the bonus was $10,000 (vs $0). DO NOT SUGGEST!
~Found out after boot camp I was going to be avionics on bomber aircraft
~6 years later, I decide to get out because the military life isn't for me and civilian pay for my exact job is triple (for noobs) what the military pays. 20 years in to get a retirement from avionics is for SUCKERS!
~8 years after joining (29) I cleared a 6 figure income for the first time and haven't looked back since.

My advice to everyone who joins the military. MAKE SURE that what you're signing up for will count towards a real world job if/when you decide to get out. You may LOVE the military and decide to make it a career. But you may HATE the military and count the days until you can leave.

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I would never date someone in the military. But every girl and relationship is different.
 

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I'd I were to take a guess, most likely the distance and constant away time.

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Neither of which applied to my career field. Never deployed once in 6 years. Never even left town or even moved for that matter. So.... Next idea?
 

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You can sometimes bring your spouse where you deploy. For instance, the USAF has a base in Korea and they can bring their spouse with them. I don't get it, deploying isn't bad. I was stationed in Japan for three years and when we deployed I got to travel and see some countries for a little bit.
 

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You can sometimes bring your spouse where you deploy. For instance, the USAF has a base in Korea and they can bring their spouse with them. I don't get it, deploying isn't bad. I was stationed in Japan for three years and when we deployed I got to travel and see some countries for a little bit.
Friend of mine is stationed at the AFB in Ramstein, Germany. Her and he now ex-husband did the exact same thing. Took small trips all round Europe.
 

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Friend of mine is stationed at the AFB in Ramstein, Germany. Her and he now ex-husband did the exact same thing. Took small trips all round Europe.
Slightly unsettling :lol: ex because of military or other reasons?
 

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Other. He became a drunk, stayed at home and played video games, and never wanted to leave the house.
 

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Other. He became a drunk, stayed at home and played video games, and never wanted to leave the house.
That sucks. :/ sorry to hear that. Have you considered military yourself?
 

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Thought about, yes. Now would I actually ever do it, probably not. I'm an IT nerd though so different path than you would take. I've had and interest in crime so I've thought about FBI or other agencies like that.
 

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She's slowly coming around to it. We have to work on her independence first though. She doesn't have a car or license yet so she's definitely not self sufficient just yet.
 


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