thanks people....
This is what i do:
I set a realistic goal,: To buy a bike and not look fat on it, lol. Basically i run on the treadmill 45mins everyday except when im outta town @ Home. usually i run twice on the weekends but i havnt done that for a weeks now. then i do as much push ups and sit ups as i can.
I also have an Iron Gym pull up bar in which ive manage to do 2 pullups from dead weight, which ive NEVER NEVER done before. lol. i also lift weights every other day, i have two 25lb dumbbells & a 60lb curl bar. hit that as much as i can.
Eat healthy and often, every two hours. small meals thru out the day. count calories, quit drinking for like months. quit fast food period, except Subway, lol and i eat a burrito every friday @ work from a different fresh Mexican restaurant.
Most important thing i do is drink TONS and TONS of WATER!!! i pee soo much everyday its crazy. lol.
So in a nutshell; exercise regularly, eat healthy & say no to everything else and drink a lot of water.