FINALLY got the VTEC light to work,
I've been trying to get this stupid thing to work for 3 days, Tonight I finally gave up on the ECU and ran the wire straight to the solenoid wire, wire wasn't long enough that I cut to tuck out of the way so I tap in clipped it to another piece and First trial (public street, no tag/insurance so couldn't go crazy) got it to about 5700RPM in 3rd gear and no dang VTEC light.
took it back to the house and pulled all the tap in clips off the wires and hard wired everything together and took it back out, BAM 5500RPM VTEC light lit up in all its blue glory. So chances are the 40 other times I hooked it to the ECU it probably would of worked had I just hard wired it in
Moral of the story:
don't buy premium grade wire and then crappy cheap advance auto wire tap ins,
Gonna wire it all better with single shrink clips, Overall it was worth it and actually doing it is very easy if you use the right products. I thought I would have to take out the console or front pieces to run the wire but everything ran easily without taking anything out.
If anyone is interested this is the write up I went off of
VTEC LIGHT WRITE UP
My dad seems convinced we can rit-dye the carpet without taking it out or taking anything out (plastics are already out of course) and still make it look good... haven't decided if I believe it or not yet. We'll see
I discovered that the left side of my tach was not lit at all, thought maybe I messed something up when I was messing with it but I moved some bulbs around and discovered its just a bad bulb (thankfully) so I'm going to order some LEDs
Also,
I ordered 4gauge tsunami wire to do the BIG 3 Upgrade, might wait until I get a new battery in the next couple weeks before I actually tackle that